Which constellation can soothe others' hearts best?

Everyone will encounter their own troubles. Sometimes we need to calm ourselves down, but more often, through persuasion from others, we can calm ourselves down faster. Thinking about things alone may lead to a dead end. With the forgiveness of others, you can avoid this situation to a great extent. Some people often become tree holes for others, and no matter what unhappy things people around them have, they can find comfort in them. But when they also encounter some unhappy things, it is difficult to understand themselves. It is easier to persuade people to overcome their own difficulties. The following constellations are good at comforting others, but it is difficult to understand themselves. (Personality refers to the rising constellation and the moon constellation)

Cancer: Perceptual first Cancer often thinks with perceptual thinking, which has the advantage of being able to empathize with others to a great extent. But for cancer itself, it is very vulnerable to external influences. In particular, some negative emotions are always eroding the mind of Cancer unconsciously. Cancer attaches great importance to her friends and family and is anxious about their joys and sorrows. They are even willing to sacrifice themselves to make their family and friends happy.

However, cancer itself has some troubles. Paying for the family for a long time may lead others to get used to their own efforts. And this will make cancer very chilling, but they can't convince themselves by explaining other people's rhetoric. More often, cancer just pretends not to care and makes itself happy by pretending.

Virgo: Contrary to Cancer, Virgo's rational thinking is very powerful. They can look at problems from an objective perspective, which greatly reduces the risk of being emotional. But it is precisely because of being too rational that Virgo often pursues the perfect self. Before you know it, you may be in a dead end.

Virgo will also enlighten others, although it may be fierce sometimes, but it can have a very good evaluation regardless of the starting point or the result. But for herself, Virgo can't control her desire for perfection. Virgo always feels that she is not perfect, and whether she chooses left or right, she can't reach the ideal state. This distress will always surround Virgo.

Leo: In broad daylight, the black Leo has a chivalrous heart and can do anything for his friends. Even the disadvantaged groups in life, Leo is willing to lend a helping hand. Leo's three views are very positive. They seem to be the embodiment of justice. Leo is never absent from helping others. Leo thinks he is the king, and has the obligation to take care of the weak and the responsibility to maintain the healthy atmosphere in the world.

However, Leo sometimes encounters unhappy things. At this time, it is difficult for them to find problems from themselves. More often, Leo is more willing to believe that the failure of this matter is caused by the external environment, which is called black under the lamp. Leo can't see his shortcomings, or he doesn't want to admit that he has shortcomings. And this is also a stumbling block to stop Leo from moving forward.

Conclusion Being helpful can reflect a person's excellent personality, perhaps because they know too much and can't convince themselves by persuading others. If we want to solve their troubles, we still have to find another way, and the traditional methods will only get worse and worse.