The more I like it, the more I want to raise a constellation. The tighter you pull, the faster you run.

Several constellations disagree with the popular love mode.

There is no denying that the more some people love them, the less they can hold on to them. After all, they naturally like freedom and prefer to maintain a certain degree of independence. However, if they want to possess it, it is not conducive to their emotional development. So what constellations are there?

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Generally speaking, Sagittarius actually has a certain ability to live independently. They can take good care of themselves without being taken care of. More importantly, they are more targeted, have their own judgments when making decisions, and do not need others to plan for them.

Such an independent, powerful and interesting Sagittarius is itself a source of happiness. You naturally don't want to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss or be excessively bound by others because of love. Therefore, the more you like Sagittarius, the more you should adopt a stocking attitude towards them, give them enough space and make them more dependent on you.

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They don't particularly want to integrate into each other's lives, nor do they particularly want each other to integrate into their own lives. They are like a person who can't make ends meet, maintaining their own rhythm and independence, and there seems to be an invisible glass wall with the outside world. I can't help it. Aquarius is like this. They think it is better to love them and ignore them.

Of course, you don't really ignore them, but give them full freedom. You can't help showing up when they need you, but you can't show up when they don't need you. In short, the decision is in their hands. All you have to do is relax, don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and don't make a fuss. It can be said that they will naturally give you corresponding care and care, but at the soul level, Aquarius

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Gemini people often look easy-going and kind, and even many Gemini people are lively and cheerful in the eyes of others, but they actually need more self-space than you think.

Generally speaking, in the eyes of people who don't know, Gemini is the same, but in front of people who know, they will show their vulnerability, isolation and dislike to integrate into the environment incisively and vividly, because Gemini will inevitably have such a side in their hearts, but it is not easy to show it in front of unfamiliar people.

The more I like them, the more I need to know them and know when they don't want to be disturbed. It can be said that Gemini needs to be reserved.

Even the less you care about them, the more they chase you, eager to know you, eager to get you, and if you are too sensible, too clingy and more caring, Gemini may not think this is an advantage. To win them, it is a good way to play hard to get, rather than dragging them too hard.