Why can't long-distance relationships last?

"Companionship is the longest confession."

There are many times why do you like someone? It's just that I'm too lonely, I can't spend all my time, I can't let go of my mind, and there just happens to be a woman, so I think this is the reason for the beginning. In the days to come, get to know, get to know, and like. If there is no feeling in the subsequent contact, then this relationship will naturally end. But if you have feelings, one day someone will have the courage to sublimate their feelings from confession, and there will be sweet love!

After that, time will pass slowly, and I will gradually get used to a person's existence, his warmth, his hug, his smile, his company and his life. In fact, many times, isn't love simply being together? But what if they're not together? But what if they are separated?

You are here, and he is here. When I miss him, there is always no way to see him quickly. You can only see his smile and feel his warmth by phone or video, but you can't hug him or feel his temperature. Without him, you may get used to life without him in the future, but what if you get used to him and suddenly have him?

"Think about fear in detail"

I don't think everyone is too unfamiliar with the definition of extreme fear. This is really a terrible name. Sometimes if you really think so, you will feel scared. For example, today I saw a great man say, "My neighbor says technology is innocent?"

Ordinary people's thinking: If you think about it carefully, it seems that technology is really innocent. After all, there are no evil tools, only evil people. After all, there are no evil martial arts cheats, only evil users!

Think deeply: his neighbor may be a programmer, and only programmers will say that technology is innocent. A programmer will say this to him, thinking that his work should be related to programmers, but he should stand on the opposite side of programmers, maybe product manager, project supervisor and so on, and his work should have nothing to do with technology.

Fear: Hey, wait, all this seems normal, but it reveals different meanings. Give me a bgm from Conan here. ) The sentence that technology is not guilty is not simple. I remember that the last person who said this sentence was the boss of the fast broadcast company, but after saying this sentence, he was taken to prison and has not come out yet. Now he says that "neighbors say technology is innocent", which seems simple, but it is full of profound meaning. It's possible that he has ... thought about his recent behavior. He hasn't bubbled in the group for a long time, and he only said a few words occasionally when he came out. It wasn't like this before. He used to be very active. Think about what a prison is like, full-time control, and occasional observation once or twice. ............

These are just men's daydreams. Women are better at daydreaming. They are in a long-distance relationship with their boyfriends. I miss him when I have time, and I want to make a phone call to video with him, but sometimes some accidents can't be done. The rest is daydreaming time. Once, twice, three times and four times may not be a big problem, but it's been a long time.

If you are busy at work, it will be even worse. We will get used to the busy life, and we will get used to life without him. Habit is a very powerful thing, it can always make people change slowly, and there is no solution.

Finally, I want to say, "in fact, many times, we will think of boyfriends or girlfriends who are not around." What is the use of eggs? 」