Why did Ge You get the best marriage in the world after 30 years of being childless and afraid of his wife?

How scared is Ge You of his wife? When "The Banquet" just ended, Xiaogang Feng called and said, "There is a foreign media that wants to interview you. Come on! " Ge You said: "Go or not!"

Xiaogang Feng was anxious: "After the interview, the whole world knows about you. What big event can't come? " Ge You said: "I promised my wife to go to Dazhong Temple to buy her floor leather."

Ge You is one of the few good men in the entertainment circle who are afraid of his wife. At the age of 30, he is still a walk-on. A friend introduced an art teacher. His parents were unwilling to live or die, and the girl almost broke off relations with her family for him.

After marriage, Ge You became better and better. For 30 years, she has been very kind to her wife and does housework every day. Many people become bad as soon as they get rich, especially dinks like them. When they want a child, the wife is too old to have a child, and the husband turns against each other everywhere. Not to mention the entertainment circle, many ordinary people have it.

But uncle Ge can treat his wife for decades. The media asked him more than once why he didn't change his wife. Some media deliberately disclosed the untidy photos of his wife in the hotel lobby, which was ridiculed by netizens as "ugly". Ge You said, "It suits me!"

Chen Kaige's statement that "Ge You is a rare peerless actor" may also be true. Uncle Ge is sterile for life, and it may be difficult to find a good man who is as sober and comfortable as him in this world.

No man is afraid of his wife. In the movie Ip Man, the master is going to kick his nose and face. Ye Wen, who endured it again, heard his wife say, "Go out and fight, and don't break things at home." Ip Man accepted the challenge. Opponents laughed at him for being afraid of his wife. In the face of provocation, IP Man calmly replied: "There are no men who are afraid of their wives, only men who respect their wives."

Rude men who are not slightly poisoned by feudalism will still use male chauvinism to ruthlessly extract surplus value from women. They think that women "follow the dog when they marry", and when they get married, they should close their hearts and go home to teach their children. It's women's fault that men don't like to go home. Women can't hold men's hearts together. Who is to blame?

When a woman becomes a yellow-faced woman at a young age for family and children, and a middle-aged man becomes rich and beautiful, he has the ability to raise a younger and more beautiful woman. Why don't they think so? Good food color, too!

These bully, bully, selfish, and weak people under family responsibility really violate the words "men are men"!

A truly indomitable man is a gentleman who, like Master Ip Man, points his fist at the bad guys, leaves his tenderness to his family and his wife.

He is also a modest gentleman. He never turns his face when he is proud, always knows who he is and never blushes with his wife.

There is really a good relationship between husband and wife in the world, and no one is really afraid of anyone. The husband is cautious about his wife everywhere because he knows that his wife is a perceptual animal. Someone needs to be hurt and spoiled, but his wife will not hurt herself. Can he give it to Lao Wang next door?

The true meaning of marriage is mutual comfort. In a long report, Ge You once told the truth that he didn't change his wife for decades after becoming famous. In fact, after becoming famous, there are many people who meet better conditions around them, but why change? It's up to you. Only his friends who have been married five times have never seen how happy they are.

When people are young, they just want you to be a real person. If they marry you for nothing, you have to be nice to them. He can't do that.

Ge You and He Cong have been together for so many years, and they are very suitable and get along naturally. Some people can't go home, and home is not home, but Ge You and his wife are always willing to stay at home and talk for a long time. They were ruined together, and his wife, as an assistant, has been running around with him on the set for decades and has experienced ups and downs. That feeling is irreplaceable by others.

Ge You's parents are married, and he is looking forward to living with his wife forever. This kind of marriage is very comfortable for each other, regardless of face value, is it really not fragrant?

In marriage, being a person who can give each other a sense of security, Xiaogang Feng once commented that he likes being with Ge You, even if he does nothing. Ge You is the only actor who makes him feel particularly safe.

Others put aside their old thoughts about you, and Ge You sat there thinking about how to play his role well, never thinking about anything else. Nowadays people are generally impetuous, and few people "do one thing and love another" from beginning to end.

People's marriages are just as impetuous. The divorce rate in 20 19 was so high that the country had to introduce a cooling-off period for divorce at the beginning of 20021. But the cooling-off period can only play the role of "passionate divorce" and can't really improve the marriage relationship.

What is a good marriage relationship? It can make the other person feel that he is the only one in your heart and give the other person the strongest sense of security. Such a marriage fortress is strong enough to take the family as a unit to resist all kinds of risks from the outside world.

Sleeping in a bed all day and calculating each other, strange strange bedfellows, isn't this relationship tiring? A husband who always says that he works overtime and comes home late, won't his wife be suspicious when she smells his perfume?

Communication is getting less and less, and communication is getting colder and colder. What hope can such a marriage have? Therefore, in the family, we should pay attention to the establishment of stable communication channels between the two sides. Heart to heart, not to be the coldest family.

In marriage, the more stable the intimate relationship, the higher the happiness of both parties, so as to live longer and cross the long river of life.

Be a CP who wastes time together. Ten years ago, someone interviewed Ge You and asked 52-year-old Ge You what kind of life she wanted. Ge You said, I just want to sit there and think nothing and waste my time.

Now that the traffic is in power, Uncle Ge has nothing to play. On June 5438+February 65438+February 7, 2020, he also presided over the wedding of the son of an old comrade-in-arms. Some people satirize that he is no longer popular and makes money as a master of ceremonies.

In fact, people have money and leisure life, and they do whatever they like. Even if the old couple do nothing, they are willing to drink tea in front of the flowers and plants on the balcony all day! Swallows know the ambition of swans?

Similar to Mr. and Mrs. Ge You, Li Jian, who is sober and does not buy a house, Zhang Wei, who has been in love with his broker for more than ten years, and Fage, who has been with his wife for decades. Their lives are wonderful. Some people don't like to earn money (Ge You), some people like to earn money but don't like to spend money (Fage), and some people rent a house all day and give their friends especially expensive gifts every day (Li Jian), which is beyond ordinary people's understanding.

In fact, life is like a play. Cps who have money and leisure need not live to see other people's faces, let alone what others think.

If I have money and leisure, I'd like to do nothing and sleep until I wake up naturally. Does it matter to me what other people think?

Life can meet a partner who shares your values and is willing to waste time with you. This life is enough!