Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe: You and I are an endless song.

If there is any treasure house of love in this world, I think it must be Wang Xiaobo's Love You as Life. The love letter is full of his deep affection for Li Yinhe.

A year ago, I accidentally turned to this book and read a few pages. To be honest, it didn't bring me much touch at that time.

Until recently, I learned a lot about these two people, and I was shocked by the books I read at the beginning.

I used to think that not reading is not enough to understand life, but later I found that some books are unreadable if I don't understand life.

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1977 One day, Wang Xiaobo sent the green-haired monster he had just written to Guangming Daily.

At that time, Li Yinhe, who worked for Guangming Daily, read the manuscript with green hair, and his heart suddenly tightened.

She said: "Although the writing technique is immature, something deeply touched my heart."

From then on, she remembered the name "Wang Xiaobo".

Later, Li Yinhe consulted Wang Xiaobo's father, logician Wang, because of academic problems.

In fact, in addition to academic issues, she has another layer of selfishness, and she wants to take this opportunity to see Wang Xiaobo's true face.

Who knows this scene broke all the beautiful fantasies in Li Yinhe's heart.

She was frightened: "I think he is really ugly", "not only ugly, but also ugly with a little fierceness".

Only at this time, the flame of love has been quietly extinguished before it can be lit. Think about it, too. Who doesn't want a good-looking skin? "Judge a person by his appearance" has existed since ancient times.

I still remember my friend told me the story of Luo Yin, a writer in the Tang Dynasty. He is brilliant, but unfortunately he is ugly and can't support his talent.

A prime minister's daughter read Luo Yin's poems and admired him. For the sake of her daughter's happiness, the Prime Minister specially invited Luo Yin to her home, and then let her hide behind the door and peek.

Who knows, after my daughter saw it, she directly destroyed all Luo Yin's poems and never read his poems again.

The opening of these two stories is exactly the same, and I can't help laughing when I read them. Everyone has a love of beauty, no exception is ordinary people or great men.

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Fortunately, the story did not come to an abrupt end here.

A few days later, Wang Xiaobo took the initiative to find Li Yinhe. When they were talking about literature, Wang Xiaobo changed the subject and asked bluntly, "Do you have a boyfriend?" ?

Li Yinhe was stunned first, and then told the truth: "No."

"What do you think of me?"

I have to say that Xiao Bo's courage is not comparable to that of ordinary people. Because of the delay of the "Cultural Revolution", he interrupted his studies after finishing junior high school and worked as a worker in a small factory. At this time, Li Yinhe had finished her college studies and worked as an editor in a major newspaper.

The disparity in family status is so great that it can be summarized in one sentence: one is in the sky and the other is underground.

Li Yinhe also said: "He is the male version of Cinderella."

In the following period of time, Li Yinhe received a steady stream of love letters from Wang Xiaobo, which were written on the staff in a special way.

One sincere letter after another touched Li Yinhe's mood, making her heart soften unconsciously and blooming gorgeous flowers.

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Their relationship has also gone through numerous tests. Li Yinhe is also very concerned about other people's eyes and family views.

Because of the appearance problem, the family gave opposition. Li Yinhe was very concerned. Under the dissuasion of her family, she broke up with Wang Xiaobo.

She sent two movie tickets with the postscript: "We can be good friends in the future."

Xiaobo immediately returned the movie ticket and wrote with the letter: "You can definitely smell Erguotou, Wuliangye and Zhuyeqing from this stationery. How can I solve your worries? Only Du Kang ... "

He wanted to give up, but he never gave up. He wrote one letter after another:

"If you like, I will love you forever. If you don't want to, I will miss you forever ... "

In the face of Li Yinhe indifference, he continued:

"You should go to the reptile house in the zoo to see if I'm uglier than them ..."

"You're not so good-looking. We are even. "

These words are humorous and show childlike innocence. Li Yinhe was moved and finally let go. Since beautiful skin and interesting soul can only be chosen, she chose the latter.

From then on, the two fell in love and got out of hand.

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"Hello, Li Yinhe" is basically the beginning of all the love letters Wang Xiaobo wrote to Li Yinhe.

It is a bit playful and naive, and the delicate emotion affects the hearts of countless girls.

Such a letter is frank, naive, wise and funny, and Wang Xiaobo has such a childlike frankness.

Good love will never be boring, even if the days are as dull as water, you can find pleasure in it. Their love is like a candy can, and they are like children around the candy can, finding surprises from the can from time to time.

Xiaobo said, "I have a conscience, and my conscience is you."

Yinhe said, "Your key is the one that opened my lock."

Nothing is more enviable than the high harmony between two souls. In front of an interesting soul, the appearance of financial resources is not so important.

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They are in the same boat through thick and thin and support each other. Because of these factors, this love has become a story that later generations talk about.

1980, Wang Xiaobo married Li Yinhe. Two years later, Li Yinhe applied to study sociology at the University of Pittsburgh in the United States, and Wang Xiaobo could only meet him two years later because of conditions.

During the time when they were studying in America together, they only lived on a scholarship of $400 a month from Galaxy. At first, they worked together in a restaurant. Xiaobo felt inferior because he dragged down Yinhe, and Yinhe wouldn't let him work because he was distressed by Xiaobo.

"He is so clever that I can't bear to let him do rough work."

Facing the incomprehension of his family, Yinhe firmly replied: "Literature is his life. We don't have high requirements for life, so it's enough for me to work alone. "

From then on, Wang Xiaobo devoted himself to writing.

After returning home, Wang Xiaobo was arranged to work in the computer classroom and do some chores. Xiaobo thinks he is a coward: "My wife is a professor and I am nothing. The joys and sorrows of middle age are probably like this. "

Li Yinhe never disliked him, even though their status was quite different. She encouraged: "Xiao Bo, write a good novel, you are priceless."

This is Li Yinhe, a person who unconditionally trusts and wholeheartedly supports the development of wavelet.

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Love is never one-sided. If Li Yinhe made Wang Xiaobo, Wang Xiaobo also made Li Yinhe.

What is good love? It's probably that no matter when or what, you try your best to achieve one place, and your heart leans towards one place.

When Li Yinhe did gay research, many relatives and friends opposed it. You know, at that time, almost no one studied this field, let alone a woman, and the voice of doubt was endless. Only Wang Xiaobo strongly supports her, and he loves her like a life, both mentally and in action.

From 65438 to 0997, Li Yinhe was still a visiting scholar in Cambridge, and Wang Xiaobo died of a heart attack, so this simple and sincere love ended.

When Love You Like Life was reprinted, Li Yinhe wrote in the preface:

Some people will meet for life. I think whether there is an answer or not, those letters and experiences are the wealth of life in the galaxy. As Xiao Bo said in "Employees", he and she are a song that Kubinashi never stops. ...

Once upon a time, letters were slow, horses and chariots were far away, and only one person was loved in my life. Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe did it. Romantic and warm life surrounds them, and those beautiful loves also bring infinite reverie to the younger generation.

If there is any secret in love, I think it is that they share weal and woe, tolerate and support each other, and turn ordinary days into poems.