Why do many people start to change their destiny around the age of 34, while people usually start to change their destiny in a few unlucky years?

Worker's Daily: Why do many people change their fate around the age of 34?

Believe in metaphysics, decompression or crisis?

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Some young people nowadays, while sneering at cliches, are busy forwarding koi fish on the Internet for good luck, which they call "metaphysics". In fact, for most young people who talk about "metaphysics", few people will really dominate their lives with the results of divination. Ideological and political experts believe that ideological education should be meaningful and interesting, so that young people can listen and accept it, and then they can be nourished with positive energy and positive values.

"Forward this lucky grass, and you can get what you want most after seven days!" Every time I see this push on the Internet, Yang Ya will press the forward button, although she hasn't figured out what she wants most. For this ambiguous "good luck", she forwarded dolphins, pistachios, crystals and so on.

Like Yang Ya, some young people nowadays are busy forwarding koi fish on the Internet for good luck while laughing at old cliches, which they call "metaphysics". Some people habitually check the fortune of the day, and some people play a few tarot cards when they encounter something. Why are a few young people keen on "metaphysics"? Can they really control their own destiny by this?

Constellation bloggers have tens of millions of fans.

On the internet, a blogger of the head constellation can have tens of millions of fans, which involves the extraordinary popularity of the twelve constellations; In front of a "tarot player", there are often millions of people waiting for the test card; In some divination, the sales of transshipment bracelets are amazing.

"Water inverse" was originally a term that senior astrologers would say, but it was gradually used by people who are keen on "metaphysics" to explain unsatisfactory things. Astrology, an ancient knowledge, is becoming popular.

"The stars will go retrograde this week. In astrology, it has the meaning of surprise and breaking the tradition. But at present, it stays in the earth sign, and the energy of the earth element controls the matter and food ... "The" Astrology Broadcast "of a constellation blogger has just been released, and it has quickly won thousands of comments and reposts.

"Good luck to the shooter!" "Scorpio is rushing!" "Good luck little lion!" Fans of different constellations crowded in the comment area to make a wish. They don't need to find out what celestial movement is, because constellation bloggers are all "mysterious scholars", telling people the predicted fortune of the stars and telling people what to pay attention to.

Tarot master's description and analysis of mental state is wonderful. Yang Ya ordered a deck of tarot cards and professional books. After getting the relevant books, she read a lot of card solutions and materials. For her, the seemingly complicated "metaphysics" is actually not difficult to understand. This "metaphysical language" is quite different from the usual expressions in life, and there is a set of evaluation system for the analysis of personal mental state. "For me, this seems to be a missing part of my life."

Astrology, tarot cards and reading all kinds of "metaphysics" all have their own fans. A product report of Constellation APP shows that most of its users are 19 ~34 years old, of which 19 ~24 accounts for more than 50%. These people like to check the horoscope every day and learn gossip stories related to horoscopes.

The way to explore the heart

"Understand astrology, analyze yourself, be kind to your heart and meet the future." This is in the introduction of a constellation group. In their eyes, astrology can't be used to solve problems or change fate. It can only "let you know your own smallness".

Zhang Wenyu, who is engaged in insurance sales, feels the same way. In her view, "metaphysics" is more of a way to explore the heart. Although I will believe it because of the pressure of work on weekdays, I will not rely entirely on it to guide my life.

Experts believe that the fundamental reason for the rise of the Internet "metaphysics" industry lies in the pressure and anxiety of young people, but only a few people are addicted to it, and most people hold the attitude of "believing without being fascinated". For them, "metaphysics" is more of a placebo for life. "Life is so difficult, even if it is not allowed, it is good to have fun."

Intimacy is really what some people who are keen on metaphysics want. Knowing yourself through astrology and divination is the main content of many posts. They believe that after understanding themselves through metaphysics, they can move towards a better life.

On the other hand, they also need the topic of "metaphysics" to naturally become a social business card. Because the introductory concepts such as constellation are not profound, it is easy to become a "stepping stone" to open social interaction, and the differentiation of various "genres" has also made its fans form a community, and social interaction has become an integral part of metaphysics.

Open the discussion group related to these, and you can see all kinds of life: what if the relationship can't continue? Can I go ashore for postgraduate entrance examination? Where to find a job after leaving your job? Many people want to get lucky and get rich, but confused young people are the mainstream of metaphysics. They project all kinds of anxiety on the stars and the "fate" in the sky, hoping to find a way to break the situation.

These young people who grew up around the new Millennium have been in a wave of rapid change. Work, marriage, housing and raising children have become "four mountains", making "metaphysics" a way for a few young people to relieve their anxiety, just like playing games.

Happiness is a struggle, not a calculation.

Because of the hot market, the controversial "metaphysics" industry is in chaos. At the end of last year, the news that a woman was cheated of more than 2.5 million yuan for collateral divination became popular, and collateral divination became the focus.

In fact, for most young people who talk about "metaphysics", divination results are rarely really used to dominate their lives, and sometimes even a means of "treating diseases". The data shows that there are 1.5 psychologists for every 654.38+10,000 people in China. In contrast, a deck of tarot cards is more within reach. Sometimes, it is a kind of self-digestion, which can help people sleep well, and it is also a new day that needs hard work.

Those young people who go to fortune-telling don't believe in "metaphysics" as much as they believe in science. "Of course I know, this is more of a sustenance. People will be more tolerant and relaxed without some explanations for failure or frustration. " Cheng Song, who works for a large communication company, occasionally does calculations, but his spare time is spent more on further study and self-appreciation. He smiled and said, "We all know that happiness is hard-won, not calculated."

Psychological research has found that astrologers usually cope with life stress, especially when the stress is related to personal interpersonal relationships or roles. When people's lives are on the right track, they will check their fortune less frequently.

Many ideological and political experts interviewed by the reporter believe that cyberspace is full of all kinds of complicated content, and some unhealthy content can survive and spread. Such thoughts can easily lead to the distortion and loss of teenagers' values, morality, outlook on life and world outlook. The appearance of "metaphysics" in the world shows that there is still a gap to be filled in the ideological education of teenagers. In the network era, we should strive to innovate the way of ideological work, use the language and path of new media, make ideological education meaningful and interesting, make teenagers listen and accept it, and nourish them with positive energy and positive values.

At the same time, they suggest that enterprises, communities and schools should provide young people with more space and opportunities for offline, entertainment and learning. In addition, when young people encounter setbacks and confusion, they should also pay special attention to psychological counseling and care.

Yin Xiaoyan

Yin Xiaoyan

The above is related to why many people change careers around the age of 34, and it is about the sharing of metaphysics. After reading it, most people are unlucky for a few years and start to change careers. I hope this will help everyone!