What "wonderful changes" have idolization brought to your life?

Even if there is no intersection in this life, at a certain moment, our souls are closely linked.

Because of my professional needs, I have written many star columns for periodicals and magazines in recent years. Later, I found a writing rule, and all celebrities have their own tricks. This "famous hall" refers not to the result of each other's high popularity or resources, but to the fact that there is an energy magnetic field behind these people who can be liked by many strangers.

The energy magnetic field bred by these personality charms will ferment and spread in a specific period of time, calling out groups that can really fit in with them.

The real relationship between idols and fans should be summoning.

Not looking, not digging, not deliberately waiting to forcibly insert into each other's life at a certain intersection. I always feel that it is inappropriate for the public to use the dynamic word "chase" to describe it. But to some extent, the word "idolization" does represent a very upward spirit. The stars in the sky are twinkling and the light is weak; People on the ground ran desperately, trying to give the night the motivation to continue. They were silent and warm to each other, and spent a certain stage of their lives together as companions. It's lucky to think that someone can have such an experience.

Don't misinterpret "idolization" excessively. To put it bluntly, this is a curiosity and sensitivity of young people to life.

Build a temporary "secret garden"

In April, I happened to meet the editor Xiao Qi on the high-speed train from Zhengzhou to Beijing. I thought she was going to the literary forum, but she danced and said to me, "No, I went to the Mayday concert."

There are only two days, Saturday and Sunday, and it's a long way to go to another city to watch a concert. I thought it would only happen when girls 16 years old. I have been in the workplace for a long time, and Sunday's "rest" is really just a rest. It takes a lot of courage to go out and paint the street on a hot day. It takes brain cells to pick up the phone and answer the message. The best way to empty is to simply lie in bed and watch TV with the air conditioner on, and be a loser. Who has the extra strength to scream among 10 thousand people?

Xiaoqi has loved Mayday since college. At first, I was moved by their rock spirit. After a thorough understanding, I was moved by the love of this group itself.

This powder ... has been powdered for many years. I watched A Xin grow from a tall and handsome poplar tree to a luxuriant banyan tree. After nearly two years of self-discipline pruning, it quickly returned to the state of pine trees when it was young. The star's figure is fat and thin, and the fans' emotions are fluctuating. Speaking of these interesting things, Xiaoqi's face fully shows the girl's golden and pink feelings.

In Xiaoqi's words, "If you like Mayday, you like your young self".

When we grow up, we build a high wall in our hearts. No one can enter easily, so we try our best not to go out. When we are tortured to death by our overwhelmed work and messy love, only when we think of loving beans will we feel that the world is not so hateful.

Those people who are far away and close to my heart, the strength they bring me, let me silently bear white dander in the long years.

They are the only access to the clear spring of fantasy in this dry city, isolated from all external interference, unable to have any identity and occupation, and enjoy equal enjoyment rights in this secret garden.

Although it is temporary paralysis, it is better than running out of ammunition and getting lost in reality.

Because I like you, I found my true self.

Among the children's literature I have read, I like Jurg Schubiger's When the World was Young best, which contains a passage: "Onions, radishes and tomatoes, I don't believe there is such a thing as pumpkins in the world. They think this is a fantasy. Pumpkins can't talk, they just grow silently. "

Ghost fell in love with a little star when he was in college, which belonged to the 18th Route at that time.

She told her classmates that she would be his agent in the future.

People around you just feel funny after listening to it. It is impossible for an ordinary college student to enter the entertainment circle. Ghost University is reading the news. In Suzhou, life is similar to that of all peers. Is nothing more than shuttling between the canteen and the dormitory, let the time go forward in Ma Pingchuan. The sense of crisis is far from these children who are addicted to bubble dramas all day.

However, because I was collecting favorite star materials all day, I stumbled into the "rice circle" and began to learn publicity and promotion. In order to help Aidou improve her exposure on the Internet, during that time, the level of ghost writing was greatly improved, and she also practiced Aidou's interview many times by using the editing course taught in class. In their spare time, they also manage the operation of Post Bar and qq Group. The whole person is full of energy and interest in entertainment.

Last semester of junior year, ghosts went to a local media internship in Suzhou.

By the time she graduated, she had a certain understanding of this circle. After careful consideration, she came to Beijing. She joined a film and television organization, made a publicity, and now works with an artist. Although she is not an idol that fascinated her at first, she is also a popular young man. Say it out, there will be many little girls asking for autographs.

Once I chatted inadvertently, I asked her, "What do you think is the most incredible thing about growing up so big?" .

She said, "I like it. Because of him, I opened a completely strange field. I never thought I could work in the entertainment industry. I never thought that the distance between myself and him was just a brokerage company. Although I don't know each other yet, I can't say that there will be an intersection in my next job. It doesn't matter if we never know each other. I still thank him because he let me find my true self. "

In fact, there are quite a few such stories in real life. In the era of national entertainment, the existence of the Internet has infinitely narrowed the distance between stars and fans. Many entertainment reporters are fans of an artist at first, and many film and television production companies hide senior rice circles. Even some fans have married their favorite idols when they grow up. (digression)

Although these are far from the normal life, there are countless cases of becoming excellent because they like someone.

Laughing at the thought of you is more effective than a boyfriend.

Idolatry is an illogical thing for passers-by. Unconditional trust and devotion to a stranger often leads to public opinion.

In the words of netizens in Zhihu, this is a sociological problem that cannot be explained from the economic level. Lu Han won the Guinness Book of World Records131.4000 "Weibo Love Letters", Zheng Shuang went to Weibo for hot search in 299 years, akb48' s album broke millions of sales in succession in such a depressed record market, tfboys birthday fans received 40,000 square meters of moon surface, asteroids and various birthday gifts, and birthday wishes were sent out on the big screen of new york Times Square every year.

What is after idolization? Good looking? Is it special? The chance of meeting is like this, but the love that can really make people support is always personality charm. When we see that there are many bright spots in idols, we will subconsciously have the idea of "I want to be better and be like him".

Even the diary description of Tchaikovsky, a literary master in the eyes of the world, is full of romantic secretly pleased after seeing the idol Tolstoy for the first time.

Therefore, there is no need to be ashamed of "idolization". The first beauty, nature, simplicity and innocence in our life are subtle reactions under unconscious choice. Just laughing at the thought of one person on the road is not everyone's experience.

Love does not possess, nor is it possessed.

Because love is fully satisfied and cured in love.

In this era of entertainment economy, idols and fans have long been more than infatuation or infatuation. On the contrary, it is more like a bunch. If you lose the love of fans, the possibility of artists becomes impossible. In other words, your liking is not meaningless to him, but valuable. (To some extent, it will be converted into commercial value)

Idolization is not terrible, but it is terrible to lose yourself in the process of idolization.

There are two sides to everything, and going too far is not enough. On the way to chasing idols, don't forget where your destination is. It's good.