What do you mean by "the net presses the cloud"?

20 16 if someone asks what software to use to listen to songs, I believe many people will be complacent about using Netease cloud music. But if I ask you this question now, many people may be ashamed to admit that they have used this music app.

As for why, I think this is closely related to the spread of the stalk of "pressing the cloud with the net"

Some time ago, the stalk of "pressing the cloud with the net" was popular for some time. Based on the sentence "I was born to be a human being, I'm sorry", many netizens have launched a wealth of paragraph creation, and launched a powerful counterattack against the music comment area of the online pressure cloud.

The final result is very obvious. I'm sorry I couldn't be born, which occupies the high ground of citation frequency and defeats the group of people who always talk about depression with proper humor.

It seems that this means of entertaining depression can really make the public laugh after watching it. It seems that the heavy depression color collapses and dissipates in clever jokes.

However, as we all know, the carnival of this paragraph has done more harm to patients with depression than those pseudo-depression comments mass-produced by Netease Cloud Music. It also makes "depression" once again experience the qualitative change of "literary youth" and become a pale word.

In recent years, with the gradual expansion of "mourning culture", the word "depression" has appeared more and more frequently in everyone's field of vision, so that it has been quoted by more and more people and poured into various sad stories, which has become the core trick to defraud "praise".

Gradually, this cheap, vain and artificial depression story finally ushered in the stage of being bored and ridiculed. "Internet pressure cloud" has become a new hot trend, sweeping all cyberspace polluted by the word "depression".

Those who are really troubled by depression have become the biggest victims after the confrontation and sweeping of two forces. They dare not easily reveal a trace of depression-related characteristics, for fear of being labeled as "moaning without illness" and "the old net weighs the clouds".

Maybe one day, no one will think that "depression" will be "cured" in this way.

So, if you want to be a rational voice, not a sound amplifier, please know more about depression before you speak in this network confrontation.

Therefore, I want to recommend a movie related to depression-Only love can keep me alive. Maybe you can have a new understanding of people with depression after reading it.

This film is adapted from a love novel of the same name, which won the Akutagawa Prize of Noguchi and was nominated for the Mishima Yukio Award, starring Suda Masaki, Shouli, RiisaNaka, Tetsushi Tanaka, Naomi Nishida and YUTAKA MATSUSHIGE.

Due to depression and severe narcolepsy, Zi Ning (the first interior decoration) can only stay in bed most of the time, so she gradually becomes a squatter at home, almost cutting off contact with the outside world.

Jin Naimu (Suda Masaki), her boyfriend who lived with her for three years, was once an aspiring young man with literary dreams, but his edges and passions were smoothed out in the process of editing Bagua magazine. He goes to work like a machine every day, buys lunch and takes it to Zi Ning, who can't go out.

This stagnant life was changed by the visit of Jin Naimu's ex-girlfriend An Tang. An Tang and Jin Naimu still have an unforgettable relationship. In order to get Jin Naimu back, she began to actively help Zi Ning get out of the house and adapt to the society. But all this is far from easy. ......

Zi Ning is always unreasonable in life. She would lose her temper with her boyfriend, ask him why he didn't wear the gloves she gave him when he went out, and blame him for screwing the bottle cap too tightly after drinking coke. She chose a lunch that her boyfriend liked on purpose. ......

However, Jin Naimu is numb and dull because of the boring and heavy work every day. He will only try his best to meet his girlfriend's unreasonable demands and will only obediently echo all kinds of complaints to her. There is little real communication between them.

At the urging of her sister, Zi Ning finally delivered a resume of applying for a convenience store clerk and set an alarm clock to get up at three or four o'clock. However, when she got up the next day, she found that she had missed the interview time. She was so angry that she had to hit her head with an alarm clock, vent at random and finally hide in bed.

Later, under the pressure of Jin Naimu's ex-girlfriend, Zi Ning had to work in a coffee shop. Fortunately, the boss is a very nice person. Even though he knows that Zi Ning suffers from depression and emotional instability, he still keeps her.

Here, Zi Ning also met friendly colleagues Li Nai and gentle proprietress. Feeling their kindness, Zi Ning happily sent a message to her sister and told her excitedly that she had found a job. And after a few days of contact with them, I even feel that I can blend in with them and live like a normal person.

In the seemingly pleasant dinner, everyone's discussion about Wei Xili completely brought Zi Ning back to his original life.

The manager asked why Zi Ning stayed in the bathroom for a long time every time, and whether she fell asleep in it because of narcolepsy. Zi Ning replied that it was only because she didn't know how to use detergent, and she was worried that the water it sprayed would cut people in half.

When discussing this possibility, Zi Ning described it vividly, and finally asked everyone if they didn't think the coal washing plant was terrible. The manager just looked at her strangely and asked her if she was drunk.

At this time, Zi Ning found that she and they still belong to two different groups, even if they are treated with tolerance, it is still difficult to blend together.

So she lost control again, smashed the toilet and made a dash for the door, running all the way. On the same day, Jin Naimu was expelled from the company because he didn't want to publish sensational false entertainment articles and threw his computer out of the window.

After receiving a call from Zi Ning, Jin Naimu running all the way finally found Zi Ning who escaped. On the cold roof, Zi Ning asked Naimu why she liked herself and why she had been with her for three years.

Jin Naimu looked at Zi Ning and replied:

"On the day we met for the first time and went home, I was shocked to hear you say that you felt that you were seen through, because I had similar thoughts before, just deliberately keeping a distance from the surroundings, but I couldn't stop you from running with blood on your head. I feel very powerful. On that road, when I ran with you, your blue skirt was flying, very beautiful. Although I don't know the meaning of this kind of thing, I still want to see something so beautiful. "

Zi Ning listened to answer in distress situation:

"This is the reason why you are with me, Jin Naimu? In fact, your brain circuit is not normal, I don't know. "

These two people, who lived like stagnant water, established an understanding at this moment. Although it was only a short moment, it was enough to support Zi Ning to live.

People with depression are not only full of despair about life, on the contrary, they can always find the meaning and fun of life in the cracks. So, please understand them.