Yuan Longping laopo constellation

Students launch a love offensive

1953, Yuan Longping graduated from Chongqing Xianghui Agricultural College (now Southwest Agricultural University) as the first generation of college students in new China, and was assigned to teach at Anjiang Agricultural School in the remote area of western Hunan.

It has been several years since Yuan Longping graduated from university, and he is still alone when he is old. Colleagues and friends are anxious to give Yuan Longping a blind date. However, girls always stay away from Yuan Longping. On one occasion, a male colleague accompanied Yuan Longping on a blind date. After Yuan Longping met the woman, she chose an introducer instead of Yuan Longping, which made people feel ridiculous. Why? Because Yuan Longping's life was too casual when he was young, he not only dressed simply, but also was untidy.

Deng Zhe was a student of Yuan Longping when he was teaching in an agricultural school. When Yuan Longping asked Deng Zhe's classmates to propose to her, the introverted Deng Zhe was full of worries. "Teachers and students fall in love is how to return a responsibility? What should I call him in the future? He is in his thirties, eight years older than me. Is there a big age gap? " But Yuan Longping seems to have taken Deng Zhe, a quiet and delicate Anjiang sister, as his wife.

Yuan Longping, 33, and Deng Zhe, 25, didn't spend much time together and didn't buy any wedding supplies. Two older youths who knew each other and hated each other held a very frugal wedding. In Deng Zhe's eyes, Yuan Longping is a romantic but cautious husband. A few days after their marriage, Yuan Longping cheerfully invited Deng Zhe to go swimming, which surprised Deng Zhe. Deng Zhe recalled that Yuan Longping had a meeting until the evening 1 1, and he had to be dragged to swim when he got home. Before going out, Yuan Longping specially brought a pair of small scissors. Deng Zhe asked him what he was doing with scissors when he was swimming. He said that there were many fishing nets laid by fishermen in the river. If it is dark when swimming, he can cut them up at once to help her escape. Deng Zhe was very warm after hearing this sentence: "Mr. Yuan is a cautious man. I found the right husband. "

From 65438 to 0990, the Yuan Longping family moved from Anjiang Agricultural School in Qianyang, Huaihua to their new home in Changsha. A gas water heater has been installed in the new home. Every time Deng Zhe takes a bath, as long as he can't hear the sound of running water for two or three minutes, Yuan Longping will shout loudly-"Deng Zhe! Deng Zhe! " As soon as Deng Zhe began to complain, thinking that he was still shouting after taking a shower, he replied bitterly: "What are you yelling about? The shower won't stop." Yuan Longping heard Deng Zhe, also don't shout. Later, Deng Zhecai knew that Yuan Longping was worried about her gas poisoning, and she would call her twice every once in a while if she couldn't hear the sound. Only when Deng Zheying answers can he rest assured. Deng Zhe felt that his mouth was "annoying" but his heart was beautiful.

I will take all the problems for you.

In the late 1960s, in order to continue the research on hybrid rice in Yuan Longping, the superior decided to transfer Yuan Longping to the Provincial Academy of Agricultural Sciences. However, his wife Deng Zhe failed to follow suit and had to stay in Qianyang with her children. With Yuan Longping's departure, the couple began to live apart for more than 20 years. Deng Zhe, who understands and supports her husband, has no complaints, and takes all the responsibilities of the family alone with his weak shoulders.

To outsiders, Mr. and Mrs. Yuan Longping have deep feelings, and they are a model of the husband singing and the wife following. Deng Zhe said with a smile that there are still pots and pans that don't knock against each other when they are married. But these stumbling blocks are not differences in principle, but differences in positions and arguments. As a member of Hunan Hybrid Rice Research Center, Deng Zhe occasionally hears his colleagues' voices, which Yuan Longping may not hear. The kind Deng Zhe would convey these emotions, but he was "bombarded" by Yuan Longping. Yuan Longping asked Deng Zhe not to meddle in the affairs of the Institute. Deng Zhe strives for "the right to speak" by becoming a member of the Society. "Quarrel twice, just twice. There is no conclusion. I don't know if he listened to me, not anymore. " Deng Zhe said that the couple had never had a big fight and had little work, let alone life. "I basically listen to Yuan Longping and have no chance to quarrel."

"People say that he is too good, and many things are not in his professional field. He may not be familiar with it." When he was in Anjiang, Hunan, Deng Zhe was preparing to have a second child. His mother came to take care of her at home and needed an extra bed. Deng Zhe borrowed a bed with a frame at school. He just needs Yuan Longping to take the time to piece together the structure. "Such a simple thing, Mr. Yuan can't do it. How to spell it is not like a bed. "

Deng Zhe and Yuan Longping have been married for a long time, and they are both separated. When working in Anjiang, the couple spent less than one-third of their time together. It was not until Deng Zhe was 50 years old that the whole family moved to Changsha and lived in Hunan Hybrid Rice Research Center, and the husband and wife really lived together day and night.

1in the winter of 974, Yuan Longping's father, Yuan Xinglie, suffered from stomach cancer and was admitted to the Third Hospital of Chongqing. People around my father sent a critical telegram to Anjiang Agricultural School in Yuan Longping. At that time, Yuan Longping was conducting a breeding experiment in Hainan, and she couldn't get away. Yuan Longping's wife, Deng Zhe, traveled from Anjiang to Chongqing day and night to visit the old man. 103, Fu Yuan died, and she succeeded Yuan Longping. At the old man's side, all other descendants arrived, except Long Ping. When his father died, he said: Longping is busy with hybrid rice experiments and has great responsibilities. Whatever you do, don't let him come back. Afterwards, Deng Zhe wrote a tearful letter to Longping, telling his father the news of his death and asking him to take his eldest son back to Anjiang from Chongqing. Previously, the eldest son was raised by Fu Yuan and Yuan Muhuajing. Hua Jing graduated from Zhenjiang Christian School in Jiangsu in his early years. He is very good at English and teaches his children carefully.

Yuan Longping has three sons, but only one is "his". The eldest has lived in Chongqing with his grandmother for many years and belongs to her, while the third has lived with her since childhood and belongs to her. Only the second child, at the age of five, Yuan Longping took him on a business trip to live in Hainan and Guangxi for a period of time. Everyone says this second child is his father's.

It's also interesting for Yuan Longping to name children. He has three boys, named May 1st, May 2nd and May 3rd. He said: "My children are all single species, all male. It would be great to have a girl! " In the next generation, his wish came true, and he had his eldest granddaughter and second granddaughter. He named the two granddaughters, which is meaningful and humorous: the eldest granddaughter's name is Yuan Youqing, because it rained all the time before birth, and the rain cleared up the next day after birth. The second granddaughter was born on February 18, 2005, which coincided with the "Rain Festival" of the lunar calendar and was named "Yuan Youqing". He said: "These two names are not only catchy, but also sunny together. Sunny day is the sun, sunny day is the rain. With sunshine and rain, everything naturally flourishes. "

His love for his wife touched God.

In Yuan Longping's memory, there was a "black" day that almost broke his heart. 1982 On New Year's Eve, Yuan Longping went home for the first time for the New Year after breeding in the south for more than ten years. On the second day of the first month, his wife Deng Zhe was sent to Huaihua District Hospital for emergency treatment due to sudden acute viral encephalitis. It never rains but it pours, and then, his 80-year-old mother also suffered from a bad cold and was bedridden at home. Her mother-in-law got cerebral thrombosis and was admitted to Qianyang County Hospital. This sudden illness hit the originally happy family, and made Yuan Longping, who was not good at housework, busy as a bee.

In addition to urgently mobilizing his three sons to serve patients separately, he also rushed to three places to take care of patients in turn, from registering, paying fees, taking medicine, to buying nutrients, carrying feces and urine, and serving tea and meals. Fortunately, Cao Panggong and Li Daiju, old colleagues of Anjiang Agricultural School, enthusiastically helped sweep the floor and plaster, and washed a few pots of dirty clothes, otherwise Yuan Longping really didn't know how to deal with this pile of housework.

At that time, Deng Zhe was lying in a deep coma in his hospital bed. He didn't open his eyes for nearly half a month and relied on infusion to maintain his life. Yuan Longping takes care of two sick old people during the day and stays with his wife almost every night at night. He looked at his wife's weak and pale face with deep affection, half guilty and half sad. He murmured that it was all my fault. I am not a good husband. You are tired, but I can't help it. I can't live without hybrid rice and rice seedlings. God is unfair. You can't have both ... Deng Zhe, I'm by your side, watching you and protecting you ... Tears blurred his eyes as he spoke.

In the days to come, he will take care of his wife more carefully and repay her for her contribution to his family for so many years. He wiped her body, changed clothes, and fed chicken soup spoonfuls; Recite Tang poems for her, tell stories, and gently sing "Old Black" in English. He knows that his wife knows that he is blessing and praying for her and doing everything for her as a husband ... Maybe heaven has eyes, and good people are rewarded. His true love and infatuation touched God, and even death quietly left the scene. Soon, Deng Zhe finally opened his eyes, looked at her husband in a trance and spit out a few words affectionately: Mr. Yuan.

"Thank God, you finally woke up!" Yuan Longping smiled as happily as a child. She was very happy. Next, according to the doctor's instructions, he helped his wife turn over every hour and gave her a massage. A month later, Deng Zhe was discharged from the hospital without any sequelae.

In 2006, Deng Zhe and his colleagues suffered a car accident while traveling in Yan 'an, and their legs were severely broken. Yuan Longping, who is attending the China People's Political Consultative Conference, can't wait for the meeting to end because he is worried about Deng Zhe. He arrived in Xi on the day he finished his report. "Listen to the secretary on the phone to describe my illness, he is still very worried. He can only rest assured if he sees my situation with his own eyes. After so many years, Mr. Yuan's careful care still touched me. " Deng Zhe said.

Deng Zhe studied driving at the age of 63, and got the Z license plate of automatic transmission. "At first, I asked Mr. Yuan for advice, and he was particularly supportive. I studied for a month and passed easily. " However, although Yuan Longping encouraged his wife to learn to drive, she did not encourage her to drive often, and even dared not let her be her own driver. Deng Zhe said that once the couple went to the city on business, Yuan Longping took the Sail car she drove. Although Deng Zhekai is well organized, Yuan Longping is still very fragile. "He is afraid to take my car. Maybe I am old and he is not at ease. " It is not so easy for Deng Zhe, who can drive, to go out for a walk by himself, because Yuan Longping always looks around. As long as there are young people who can be drivers at home, Deng Zhe can't touch the steering wheel.

"Teacher Yuan is becoming more and more strict with me now." Deng Zhe smiled brightly, and then she added happily, "It's good that someone cares about you."