What must I consider before getting married?

Marriage is a very sacred thing for everyone, which is directly related to everyone's happiness for the rest of his life. Therefore, everyone should treat marriage with great caution. Before getting married, he must be mentally prepared, think twice before you do, and make sure that he is ready to enter the marriage. So what must be considered before getting married?

First, considering each other's material conditions, not as people who have been poor together know, love can be poor, but marriage can't. Many people say that love without material is fragmented, especially in marriage, there is no romance in falling in love, and you have to face daily necessities. Getting married is a particularly realistic thing. If two people can't even eat a meal, let alone live happily ever after.

Second, considering each other's family environment and parents' way of getting along is likely to become the model for you two to get along in the future. How parents live together, what kind of growth environment they grew up in, and whether parents are reasonable and easy to get along with are directly related to the feelings of husband and wife after marriage.

Third, consider each other's sense of responsibility and self-motivation. Some people always feel that in love, they are full of love and water, and material conditions are not important. Although material conditions are not necessary for marriage, you must consider the future of both of you. If you have to live a life of poverty and hardship, are you really willing? So you must find a responsible and self-motivated man, so that you can see the hope of life.

Fourth, we should also consider the mentality of both of you. Marriage means that two people are no longer independent individuals, but want to form a family. Can you shoulder the responsibility of a family, know how to work together for the family, whether you are psychologically prepared to integrate into the other family, whether your married life will change greatly, and whether you can adapt.