What do you think when you learn that your ex is getting married after breaking up?

I went to a friend's party a few days ago. Except for a few acquaintances, many of them are new friends I have never met.

At the beginning, everyone briefly expressed their views around the recent hot spots. I can clearly feel that everyone is actually restrained. After all, they are not familiar with each other, but after a few drinks at dinner, everyone gradually opened their hearts and began to show their hearts, gradually narrowing the distance between them.

Some people are flushed and talk about the troubles they have often encountered recently. Some people admit that the relationship between husband and wife has not been smooth recently because of some trivial matters at home, while others talk about the increasingly strange relationship between brothers and sisters. ...

It can be said that everyone has his own story. What caught my attention most was that Jamlom, who was inarticulate at first, became a little excited and even had tears on his face.

It turns out that Jamlom and her husband have been divorced for half a year. The reason is that they often get along because of trivial quarrels, which leads to physical and mental exhaustion of each other. Finally, she filed for divorce, and her husband agreed. As a woman, although I was angry at that time, I found that I couldn't let him go after the divorce. I recently learned that he has a new lover and is going to get married. I drank a little red wine and couldn't help crying.

To tell the truth, everyone feels distressed when they look at Xiao Xu's red eyes, but they can only give symbolic comfort. After all, in the end, they have to rely on her to really get through this most difficult time.

What do you think when you learn that your ex is getting married after breaking up? Five people came over and told the truth.

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(1) Liao Jing, who is dissatisfied, questioned that his own conditions are not as good as his own, so why not find a new lover first?

Before getting married, Liao Jing thought that once she chose a marriage partner, she would be together for life, but she didn't expect to get divorced in the fifth year of marriage.

At first, it was not a problem between Liao Jing and her husband, but a contradiction between Liao Jing and her mother-in-law. Her husband not only refused to coordinate the solution, but also stood on the mother's side, even if it was her mother-in-law's problem, she should take the initiative to apologize.

Two people have communicated too many times in private, and they all ended in vain. She thought that with the delay of time, these problems would be solved, but the problems got worse and worse, and she finally chose a divorce.

She felt that she was "blind" to marry such a husband, regardless of her own conditions or family background, but there was still no happy ending.

She was a little dissatisfied when she learned from her friends that her ex-husband had married a new lover. She thought that her ex-husband had found the right person before herself because of her poor conditions. Why did he surpass himself? The more she thinks like this, the more unhappy she is.

(2) Zhang Qiang said he didn't care when he learned that his predecessor was about to get married.

Before the divorce, Zhang Qiang was very fond of his wife, which can be said to be spoiled all the time.

I do my own transportation work and often go out. Every time I come back, I will bring my wife local characteristics, and no one will be less. Moreover, he was afraid that his wife would work hard outside, so he simply asked her to take care of the children at home and give her all the money she earned, leaving only a little living expenses for herself every month.

However, what he didn't expect was that his wife found another man behind his back. After he found out, he didn't beat and scold his wife, because he still couldn't bear it. He only mentioned two words: divorce.

Because two people have children, they meet from time to time, but even so, Zhang Qiang's heart, which once loved his ex-wife, is dead. Even when he heard the news that she was getting married, he was indifferent, indicating that he didn't care and had nothing to do with himself.

Maybe in his heart, he will never forgive his ex-wife in his life.

(3) Ms. Yang, hearing that her predecessor was getting married, laughed at the blind woman.

When Ms. Yang divorced her ex-husband, she went through a lot of trouble, because her ex-husband didn't agree to divorce and even threatened her frequently. After she had to sue, she finally divorced.

When she first got married, Ms. Yang and her ex-husband had a good relationship, but later she was depressed because of her ex-husband's business failure. No matter how Ms. Yang comforted and persuaded, it didn't help. Instead, she began to give up on herself. Besides drinking, she often hangs out with some irresponsible people. She doesn't go to work, she just idles around.

Once, he wanted to go out with some friends and get money from home. Ms. Yang disagreed, and her ex-husband hit her. This time she was disheartened and asked for a divorce, but her ex-husband just didn't agree.

No matter how well-intentioned Ms. Yang persuaded, it was useless. She also threatened to beat her if she mentioned divorce again. Ms. Yang immediately filed a lawsuit and hoped for a divorce.

Finally divorced through mediation.

When Ms. Yang learned that her ex-husband was getting married, she was very worried about the woman who was going to marry her ex-husband, thinking that she was not only blind, but also unlucky.

For her ex-husband, Ms. Yang has no nostalgia, but every time she mentions it, she will take a hint of ridicule, thinking that whoever follows her ex-husband will not be happy, but it is a kind of sadness.

(4) Ms. Pang, when she learned that her predecessor was getting married, said that there was finally a reason to let go.

Ms. Pang's divorce from her ex-husband was "a last resort". It's not that two people have problems getting along, but that my mother-in-law can't get along with herself and always feels that she is having a hard time. It's even harder among her ex-husbands. It's no use trying to persuade her mother-in-law. Finally, her mother-in-law forced her to divorce.

After the divorce, they thought that they could remarry after a while. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be ill and hospitalized, and explicitly asked her son not to remarry with Ms. Pang, otherwise she would die unsatisfied.

Ms. Pang's ex-husband can only obey her mother's "orders" and will only meet her secretly in private, but when will this day end? When can we have a happy ending?

Ms. Pang and her ex-husband chatted in depth for the last time, feeling that they had separated and no longer had any interaction.

In fact, Ms. Pang can't let go of her ex-husband. Many people don't agree to introduce her to the blind date, but she still misses him in her heart. Until one day she heard the news that her ex-husband was getting married, she shed two lines of tears and said that there was finally a reason to let go of her previous feelings. ...

(5) When Sun Chao learned that his ex-wife was getting married, she said that she was very contradictory, caring and powerless.

Sun Chao loves his ex-wife very much, but she didn't cherish it when she was together, and now she regrets it very much.

When they are together, they get along well. Sun Chao thinks that if he loves his wife, he should give her the best. He always thinks about how to make a lot of money and then buy his wife the best things in the world. However, my wife doesn't think so. She hoped that Sun Chao would be practical, not make too much money, and the family would be safe and happy together.

Sun Chao didn't listen. He insisted on doing big projects with his friends, and all the money at home was taken away. It is useless for his wife to stop him. As a result, not only did he not make any money, but all the money he had invested before was wasted.

My wife didn't want this family to break up, so she took some money from her parents. However, Sun Chao thought he would succeed. He took out the money to do this project without telling his wife. I didn't expect to be cheated. ...

My wife couldn't stand Sun Chao's torture and divorced him despite his persuasion.

Now, when Sun Chao learned that his ex-wife was getting married, he was not happy, but he was ambivalent, caring and powerless.

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Without feelings, everyone feels differently.

However, in any case, it is a blessing to be one of the experiencers. After all, we once fell in love, and for various reasons, we changed from the favorite person to the stranger. But in the face of the past, we should let go and be grateful. Let bygones be bygones, and living in the present is the most important thing.

What people are most afraid of is living in the past and not coming out, so that they dare not move towards the future, let alone the present. In fact, no relationship is smooth sailing. After experiencing setbacks and mistakes, I gradually understand what I want and what the other person wants, and finally find my own way to happiness.

This episode will not make you lose the qualification to find happiness, but make you know yourself better, so you don't have to be sad and learn to say goodbye to the past. We didn't lose happiness, we just took a detour. I believe that happiness is beckoning to us in the near future!