My boyfriend is superstitious. What should I do?

In-depth communication to understand each other's psychological state; Be a better self.

He is superstitious and has a lot to do with his family background. Is it possible that he lacks security and self-confidence in his feelings, so he is superstitious and afraid that he will really encounter some situations when he gets along with you in the future?

There is a saying in psychology that love is the best medicine to cure everything. Because some people fall in love because their early experiences (mostly from their families) lack love, they turn to the outside world for love. He is easily filled with love, but this kind of love will make her suffer. Just like his insecurity, have you ever thought that this has something to do with his past experience?

To be a better self, no matter how hard you work and study, you should be responsible for your own life. If you want a quiet life, you have to feel more secure.

Talk about distant things (such as children's education, parents' pension, women's career rising and having children, postpartum repair and taking care of children, house decoration, savings, honeymoon, etc.). You can talk about your own ideas, mainly to let your boyfriend talk and get to know his thoughts. Only then can I know whether it is a waste of time to continue to fall in love, and it is useless to talk more about sadness.

It is clear from the above that breaking up is only a temporary pain and the cost is very low. If you unite and work hard, you will have a clear conscience. No matter what decision you make, it is necessary to know the above contents. If it's just a sweet love transition for one or two years, it doesn't matter how long you stay married, so don't worry so much. You have to ask yourself what you think and give yourself an explanation.