Why is there such a big gap between Yao Ce and Guo Wei? What's your opinion?

Although Yao Ce stole Guo Wei's life and enjoyed everything that should have belonged to Guo Wei, he could not get Guo Wei's forbearance, filial piety, kindness and generosity.

Yao Ce is not only seriously ill, but also mentally and mentally unsound! Including the wife of birds of a feather flock together. A leopard cannot change his spots!

Supposedly, I shouldn't, I can't bear to, when it hurts, but I can't bear to see what they did to their foster mother. ......

Comparing Yao Ce and Guo Wei, I really feel that the inheritance is very powerful. Although life has changed in the past 28 years, it is inextricably linked with family background.

First of all, in terms of personality, Xu Mu looks like a traditional wife and mother. As a military wife, she went alone.

The hospital has no regrets about giving birth to and taking care of the sick son. She has the simplicity and perseverance of traditional women in China. This Guo Wei is very much like Xu Mu. Look at Yao Ce again. He has excellent language skills and is eloquent, just like Du Ma, and of course, so is his personality.

Secondly, look at the careers of Guo Wei and Yao Ce. Yao Ce could have had a job in the system, from nine to five, but he likes to do business, and Du Ma is a businessman. According to Du Ma, Guo Wei studied interior design, but he chose to be an auxiliary police. This is the embodiment of genes. I remember there was a movie in India in which the son of the housekeeper and the son of the main family were exchanged. Although the children in the main family enjoyed the best education, they were not happy at all. Children who grow up as housekeepers have no chance to learn, become self-taught and eventually become business elites.

Yao Ce, who was replaced by mistake, grew up in a honey pot. His grandparents love him, his parents love him, and he doesn't have to take care of his mentally ill sister. Besides, he enjoyed the best life. His adoptive parents gave all their love to Yao Ce.

Ma Xu, the foster mother, told Yao Ce nothing. At first, she made up her mind to "cut the liver" for Yao Ce, only to find that they were not related by blood.

Guo Wei and Yao Ce were still very close when they met each other, and their parents were also very excited. However, within a few days, their painting style suddenly changed. They are no longer the happy family they used to be, but the object of mutual condemnation.

Obviously, there are too many "barriers" between them, which are caused by different interests.

Take the house where Yao Ce lives now. Yao ce must want to leave it to his wife and son. After all, these two people are his closest relatives.

However, Xu Min bought the house, and he definitely wanted to leave it to his son Guo Wei.

Yao Ce and Xu Min have different views.

The key point is that Yao Ce's mother said: Xu Min paid the down payment on the house, and now they have helped to pay off the poor mortgage 1.4 million, and then the house will be owned by Yao Ce.

Do you think this won't make Yao Ce's foster mother Ma Xu angry?

She paid a down payment of 500,000 yuan to the house. The monthly mortgage was paid by Xu's father, and the high-end furniture at home was also purchased by adoptive parents. Yao Ce said nothing about this. Because grandma also gave some money when buying this house, Yao Ce said that she would return the house to grandma's name, because grandma has many children, and how to distribute it is a problem. There are also rumors that this is just to delay the time and let the will take effect after his death.

Yao Ce is not only ungrateful now, but also more critical of his foster mother.

Yao Ce was raised by her in 28 years and has deep feelings. Now, regardless of old feelings, I have parted ways with my adopted son. It seems that Yao Ce is heartbroken.

Guo Wei takes care of the overall situation!

Concluding remarks

When netizens saw Guo Wei, they all thought he was an honest man. Coupled with what he said, natural netizens praised him.

Yao Ce's life is hanging by a thread. How could his only child's personality suddenly change for so many years? Besides, he has to think about his children. So all his actions are magnified.

Yao Ce is too clever to pay more attention to interests. When Ma Xu was attacked by the Internet, he asked him to explain. He refused. At that time, the voice on the internet was very beneficial to him, and he could win the sympathy of netizens and get more donations. For the sake of interests, he did not hesitate to hurt the mother-child relationship that raised him for 28 years, and family ties were worthless before interests.

The biggest difference between Yao Ce and Guo Wei is that one is too shrewd and calculating, and the other is too loyal and tolerant.

First, their past experiences are both sweet and bitter. Yao Ce was adopted by Xu's mother. In a military family, family conditions are also good. Yao Ce has been suffering from hepatitis B since childhood. Xu's mother can be said to have devoted all her efforts to treating diseases, and she has won the love of almost everyone in this family. Later, Xu's mother paid a lot for his studies, work and life. Guo Wei's adoptive parents' family, however, had a hard life and went to school very late. At the same time, she had already taken care of the whole family, including her sister with mental defects, and later had her own life through her own efforts. It can be imagined that Yao Ce has developed a character of thinking more about himself in such an environment, and he is not very independent and his heart is not very mature. However, Guo Wei suffered a lot in his early years, so he experienced more storms.

Second, the current situation is two extremes: sadness and joy. Yao Ce suffered from liver cancer due to alcoholism and other reasons, which can be said to be very unfortunate. Of course, this also has his own reasons. More unfortunately, his mother, who had been deeply in love with him at this time, did not commit suicide. Xu's mother tried to cut his liver to save him, but she couldn't save herself. She finally found her biological parents, but she also suffered from cancer. It can be said that Yao Ce's immature heart can't keep inner peace under such repeated blows. With the approval of Xu's mother and Guo Wei, he will feel that life will get darker and darker, and the negative emotions in his heart will be aroused, so it is not surprising that he is doing so now. For Guo Wei, he originally had parents, and now he has found his biological parents. It can be said that this is a surprise, and his future life will get better and better. He has become self-reliant, and he will cherish this relationship more.

So let's not be too hard on Yao Ce. After all, he is also a poor man. In the face of such a big change, if Yao Ce's biological parents really abandoned him at that time, it would be a great blow to him, and most people would collapse if they left. I still hope that the outcome of life exchanged for mistakes is beautiful, and I hope that both families have a bright future.

Anyway, through this incident, the key figure Yao Ce really refreshed my understanding of human nature.

Let's not talk about Guo Wei, because as a normal person, I think Guo Wei has done something reasonable.

On the contrary, Yao Ce was born with a golden key. From school to work, he is always properly arranged at home. In the vernacular, he was played a good hand.

Then it was through this incident that I really realized the power of genes and, of course, the doting of foster mothers.

Ah, but don't persuade others to be kind and don't suffer others.

Yao Ce was told that he had hepatitis B when he was over two years old. Although Xu Min's family tries their best to take care of him, a sick child is definitely not safe in it, especially when he knows that he is not Xu Min's own child. And his own biological mother, for whatever purpose, changed her children. For Yao Ce, he was abandoned, and he was an unacceptable child.

When his foster mother gave everything, only to find that it was not her own child, and it might still be a scam, her heart collapsed and her fate changed. She was so busy caring that she didn't even dare to ask for love. This was actually a "scam". Her "hate" had nowhere to vent, and Yao Ce unconsciously became the object of her "hate".

Guo Wei was given responsibility from an early age. I believe his adoptive parents taught him to take good care of his sister and not to tell his parents easily. In life, neglected children often try to take on more responsibilities. In his mind, he will think that this is what I should do and what I should do.

Like many women from patriarchal families, she will try harder to take on family responsibilities because they are so eager for recognition.

These are all the same for men.

But on another level, Guo Wei's biological parents must be willing to recognize him and give him love and affection, and his adoptive parents must be unwilling to give him up. After all, he has taken on so many responsibilities at home, so he feels safe. He is not an abandoned person, but a person who is loved and needed, although this is a love that has been "stolen" for a long time.

People's psychology is complex and diverse.

Of course, heredity also plays a very important role for everyone.

Whether it is "misplaced" or "stolen", life has already happened, and we can only accept it except sigh, resentment and emotion. I hope Xu Min, Guo Wei's biological mother, an ordinary and great mother who is willing to have her liver cut to save her child, can accept this bloody reality as soon as possible. See you tomorrow, I hope she will get better as soon as possible!

I also hope that those who abandon their children for their own interests under the banner of being good for their children will be condemned by their conscience.

"Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." Human nature is different, and nature is different. Yao Ce and Guo Wei have completely different attitudes and methods towards life and affairs, and the gap is really not small. Personally, I think there are two main reasons.

1, the first reason is human nature. Yao Ce is narrow-minded and can be said to be envious and jealous. My heart is not sunny. Guo Wei is generous, kind and easy-going. Be grateful. Overcome everything and accept the reality. Therefore, properly handle interpersonal relationships.

2. It is related to the environment of family education since childhood. Two people exchanged lives for 28 years. Yao Ce was loved since childhood, especially by his adoptive parents, and his temper came from an early age. Therefore, Yao Ce is very individual and selfish. Guo Wei is different. Live a normal life and treat it rationally.

I think the above two aspects are the reasons for the big gap between the two!

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