The child suddenly becomes talkative and often looks unhappy. What about rebellious children?

Generally speaking, children's rebellious period is between 12 years old and 18 years old, but each child's rebellious period and performance are different. Through the guidance of parents, most children can develop in a good direction.

First, communication and reconciliation. No matter how difficult it is to discipline children, communication is also essential. If parents choose to be angry with their children, do not argue with them or educate them, then the children will inevitably get deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents must communicate more when their children show signs of resistance for the first time.

Second, make friends with children. Many parents always treat their children with a condescending attitude, which is not desirable. If parents want their children to live in harmony with themselves, they should choose to be their friends. If you want your children to get along with you, you should choose to be your children's friends.

Third, give children equal voice. Children are also members of the family. Parents can let their children participate in family decision-making. On the one hand, they can feel more sense of belonging and participation, on the other hand, they can cultivate their sense of responsibility. When children fully express their ideas, parents should make a positive response. Even if the child is incorrect, don't rush to deny it. Let children feel that they have received the respect and understanding they deserve, which will make them full of sense of accomplishment and be more conducive to emotional communication in the future.

Fourth, think more about children. As parents, we should think more about our children, understand their difficulties, and then help them overcome the difficulties they face, instead of being too harsh on them. We must help them solve practical problems.

Fifth, create a good family atmosphere. Parents should set an example, control their emotions, put aside personal affairs, create a good family atmosphere for their children, establish a harmonious parent-child relationship, and let their children have a sense of belonging and grow up confidently.

Sixth, teach children to take responsibility. Rebellious children often make mistakes, and they will not admit their mistakes. Even if they are caught by their parents, they will find some reasons to make excuses for themselves. Children become fond of passing the buck and unwilling to bear the consequences themselves. Parents will be more angry when they see their children's behavior, and they can't educate their children calmly, which leads to their children becoming more rebellious and falling into an infinite loop.