After Tong Jingya's divorce, Bai Zhiyong fell in love with the married Jiang Xiaomei. Isn't this how Jin Dong really feels?

Recently, "If Time Can Go Back" is being broadcasted, and the relationship between characters and emotions in the play has always been the focus of hot discussion among netizens. You Jianming, the producer of the play, said in an interview with the media: I want to break the audience's "stereotype" of time and age through "If Time Can Go Back" and provide the audience with another life.

Middle-aged men, who have always been regarded as the backbone of society and the pillar of their families, will also be under pressure in the face of "being divorced", "being happy as a father" and "being derailed", and they also need to adjust their mentality and embark on the journey again.

With the development of the drama series, interested netizens found that the real life experience of the hero Jin Dong is exactly the same as Bai Zhiyong's emotional experience in the drama.

In the TV series, Bai Zhiyong (played by Jin Dong) is an executive of a company, and Jing Ya (played by Zuo Xiaoqing) is an excellent diplomat. They are a successful and loving couple.

But Bai Zhiyong was never ready to be a father, so Jing Ya aborted the baby. As time went on, Jing Ya couldn't let it go and filed for divorce.

Bai Zhiyong strongly disagreed, because he loved Jing Ya very much, but there was no way to continue this marriage, so he finally agreed to divorce.

After the divorce, Bai Zhiyong couldn't accept the breakdown of his marriage for a while and chose to travel abroad. During this period, he met the tour guide Jiang Xiaomei (played by Rulu).

It is also fate. Because of this encounter, the two gradually developed into good friends who talked about everything. Later, Bai Zhiyong learned that Jiang Xiaomei was married and her husband was a scum man. He often mistreats her and burns her with cigarette butts.

Jiang Xiaomei always wanted a divorce, but her husband insisted that she prepare 3 million yuan before agreeing to divorce. Bai Zhiyong of "Neither of us is happy"-Forever can't stand the woman he likes being wronged like this, so he sells a house and a car to lend money to Jiang Xiaomei to raise money.

As for their later development, the plot is still being updated.

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In the play, Bai Zhiyong and Jing Ya fell in love with married Jiang Xiaomei after divorce, and Jin Dong, the actor of Bai Zhiyong, also had a very similar emotional experience in real life.

At that time, Jison and Gao Shuguang had just divorced, and they had a daughter, Gao Yixin, who was raised by Jison after the divorce.

Jiang Shan's daughter has publicly stated that she can't accept the feelings of her mother and Jin Dong. The world of children must hope that their biological parents can make up. At that age, how can they understand their mother's pain?

In the end, Jison had to break up with Jin Dong for her daughter.

On 20 10, Jin Dong and angel lee starred in a TV series "Youth Never Say No", and they soon became good friends who talked about everything.

Angel lee had a marriage before she met Jin Dong. The other party is a businessman. Because he didn't like his wife's publicity, Li Jia quit the show business after marriage. However, due to family conflicts, the two eventually divorced.

At that time, Jin Dong had just broken up with Jison, and because they had similar experiences, they had a strange affection for each other. When dry wood meets fire, the two quickly develop into lovers, and soon they get married in a low-key way, and now they have their own children.

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No matter Bai Zhiyong in the play or Jin Dong in reality, the label of "second-married man" and "second-married woman" is not enough to resist a beautiful love. No matter how many marriages, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's right.

In fact, for men and women who get married for the second time, they know the true meaning of marriage better.

Because of the lesson of a failed marriage, men will know more about caring for women, change their previous bad habits, and examine what kind of women are more suitable for them and what kind of days are more suitable for them.

This is not to say that marriage and feelings are materialized, but that after we have a clearer understanding of ourselves, we can better face our future feelings and marriages.

Everyone who remarries will look at marriage and feelings very carefully.

Will it be difficult for men and women to remarry? The answer is obvious, yes!

First, the handling of parent-child relationship.

If the remarried party has children, how should they get along with them? Regardless of whether the child is married or not, the child is the heart of the parents and wants to be good to the child and does not want the child to suffer; Then it is inevitable to contact your predecessor. Can remarried couples accept it?

Second, keeping a certain boundary with family of origin, parents' interference will affect their children's remarriage;

Remarried couples are actually easier to separate than the original ones, because after a failed marriage, there is a gap in their hearts after remarriage. If one more person participates in family life, the chances of conflict will increase, and their marriage will also increase a risk.

Third, the economy is open and transparent.

For those who remarry, there may be bad feelings and the property is not open and transparent. It is because of bad feelings that this has become a major hidden danger for remarried people. If one party has debts before marriage and the other party can't accept them, then the two can be together well and won't be torn up after marriage. In the same way, if one party has a good economic foundation and does not want to disperse the family property because of remarriage and divorce, then the property can be notarized before marriage to avoid future unhappiness.

Let the other party know their financial situation. In any case, it is much better to tell each other before marriage than to be caught after marriage.

To solve these problems, I believe that everyone who remarries will have a happy ending.