Parents' Love: What kind of person is Jiang Defu who has made Anjie happy all his life?

Jiang Defu is the first hero in the TV series "Parents Love". This character was born in a poor rural area and experienced the war of conquering the south and attacking the north. After the founding of New China, he entered a military academy as a leader for further study. During this period, he knew and fell in love with Angie, a big capitalist, and realized a happy marriage. Many people say that Angie's happiness comes from meeting Jiang Defu who really loves her, so let's see what kind of person Jiang Defu is.

Jiang Defu is a caring and responsible person.

The biggest challenge of Jiang Defu and Anjie's marriage comes from the difference of family background. Anjie was born in a capitalist family. In that era when family background was a sensitive political issue, Jiang Defu's cleverness certainly knew the political risks of marrying Anjie. But he made up his mind to give up everything. It was not just an impulse to get a beautiful woman before marriage, but a deliberate choice.

Marrying Angie almost made Jiang Defu take off his military uniform, but he was lucky enough to pass it at this juncture. But later, this marriage did affect Jiang Defu's career development. He lost the chance of further promotion because he married Anjie from a capitalist family, but he never mentioned it to Anjie and he didn't complain. These disadvantages were foreseeable when they got married. He got what he wanted and accepted the negative impact of this choice.

It seems natural to be responsible for one's choice, but not everyone can afford such a choice like Jiang Defu. Mrding is a sharp contrast with him.

Mrding's education level is higher than that of Jiang Defu, and he has been looking forward to living with an intellectual woman who resonates spiritually, which gave him a chance after his rural wife died in dystocia. He has the opportunity to choose an intellectually beautiful Mr. Ge, but he is unwilling to accept the negative influence of Mr. Ge's landlord background. He also had the opportunity to choose Wu Medical Help, but the marriage history that Wu Medical Help concealed was unacceptable to him. Finally, Mrding seems to have no choice but to marry Jiang Defu's sister Jiang Dehua, but isn't this the most beneficial and safest choice for himself?

Although Mrding has always admired Jiang Defu's life, the whole drama shows that Jiang Defu's rich life was bought with his own mind and responsibility, which is a quality that selfish Mrding does not have.

From Jiang Defu's attitude towards the martyrs, we can know that he is a man who values affection and righteousness, is not proud of himself and is grateful.

Before getting married, Jiang Defu was invited to give a report in Anji's hospital. Angie came back to tell her sister An Xin that Jiang Defu never talked about his achievements from beginning to end, but told the heroic deeds of his dead comrades. Perhaps Jiang Defu knows deep down that he is still alive after coming down from the battlefield. It is his greatest blessing to be promoted to an officer and enjoy a new life in new China. As a living person, he has the responsibility and obligation to tell everyone the heroic deeds of his comrades who died in the battlefield, so that everyone can remember those martyrs who died for their country.

Jiang Defu's most common admonition to children is not to fight with the children of martyrs. Jiang Defu is basically a fatherly figure in TV series, but the only time he hit his own child in the play was because his son fought with the martyr's son. That hit was so hard that the feather duster flew away. He told the children sternly, "Their father died a glorious death. Protect them and love them! " ""the martyr's child can't touch a finger! Touch it once and I'll hit you once! "

Compared with the dead comrades, surviving is the luckiest thing. Take care of their descendants and spread their heroic deeds. Only those who are grateful will do so.

Jiang Defu is sincere, knows how to respect women and love his wife, and has a principled bottom line.

When Jiang Defu fell in love with Angie, he told Angie that he had got married in his hometown. Although the marriage was arranged by his parents, it was short-lived and there were no children. He told Angie everything at the beginning of his relationship. His marriage history may have a fatal blow to this new relationship, but Jiang Defu chose to tell the other party in advance, which shows that he is sincere.

Anji likes cleanliness and petty bourgeoisie, which is highly respected by Jiang Defu. Before getting married, invite Sister An to the coffee shop for coffee. Follow Anjie's hygiene habits after marriage and become a "three-wash" husband. There are many small details of these lives, so I won't list them here.

When Angie came to the island, he wanted to find a job. Jiang Defu didn't bind his wife at home because he took care of the family, but supported her work and helped her find a job.

Jiang Defu also trusts his wife completely. The painter came to the island to sketch and asked Anjie to be a model. In fact, when he saw this scene, Jiang Defu completely trusted his wife, even though the vinegar bottle was knocked over.

Jiang Defu's respect and care for his wife is also reflected in loving me, loving my dog. Although Jiang Defu and Anji's brother-in-law, Ouyang Yi, bickered at the dinner table at the beginning of their marriage and called Ouyang Yi "old Europe" to provoke him, he was a selfless helper when Anji's sister-in-law was in trouble. He asked Angie to visit her sister in Xiaoheishan Island. His help was not condescending, but taking care of each other's self-esteem. After Ouyang Yiping rebelled, Jiang Defu offered to help his two nieces join the army. This kind of active help even predates Angie.

But Jiang Defu's love for Anjie is by no means blindly obedient to win the favor of beauty. Jiang Defu said, "There is gold under one's knee". Although Anjie urged Jiang Defu to kneel down to propose marriage, he still insisted on not kneeling. When he graduated from the military school, Jiang Defu could have stayed at school. Although his two children are still young and his wife doesn't want to leave the city, he chose a job that suits him better and gave up the opportunity to work and live in the city. He came to the island alone and lived an isolated life.

Jiang Defu's principle is also reflected in the conservatism of family privacy. Although he knew very well that Jiang Changyi was not his own son, although this incident caused Angie to fall into great pain and anger, in order to safeguard the dignity of the family, he shouldered his wife's misunderstanding of himself for many years. This may be regarded as a small selfishness and shortcoming of Jiang Defu.

Angie summed up her happy life when she was old in eight words, that is, "food, clothing and happiness". It can be said that since their time, it is not easy to have enough food and clothing and happiness. Nowadays, we live in an era of food and clothing, but spiritual pleasure is still not easy. It seems that Jiang Defu's qualities that can make women happy should be well explored.

From a psychological point of view, Jiang Defu is a person with a good personality. Be flexible, responsible and empathetic.

In terms of personality, Jiang Defu is a sincere, kind and upright person.

So, girls are happy, and there is nothing wrong with finding a person with Jiang Defu's quality!