Have a Gemini best friend. What if she gossips too much?

As we all know, Gemini is a very curious constellation. You never know what strange ideas will come into their heads. It is hard to avoid that they are particularly fond of gossip. After all, gossip can satisfy their curiosity about a person.

Having a Gemini girlfriend who likes gossip is not a bad thing in itself. If he just gossips with you, it won't affect your own life, nor will it harm your own interests and interpersonal relationships. Just listen to what they say, but you really don't want to hear it. You can also change the subject and say something else.

But if this girlfriend's gossip affects your life, for example, she often gossips behind others' backs and chews the root of others' tongue, and it is finally known by that person, which affects your relationship. Seriously, because of her, you are in trouble. You need to communicate to solve the problem.

You can gently tell him that it's not good, or that you hate gossip. I believe that anyone with a little emotional intelligence will be interested in ending those behaviors that affect others. But if the communication is ineffective, it means that this girlfriend is really hopeless. I suggest you reconsider your relationship.

For smart Gemini, there is another trick to try, that is, to change their behavior with fortune theory. For example, if you tell her "Gemini people don't gossip about others today", they will really restrain themselves and the pro-test will be effective. Of course, these are just delaying tactics. If you want to solve the problem for a long time, you still need communication.

In short, we need to learn tolerance in friendship, but there is a limit to tolerance. If the other person's gossip behavior really affects your life, we can choose to communicate, communication is ineffective, end the relationship, and stop loss in time, which is also a solution.