Lifelong growth review 1300 words

After reading a book, everyone must have a lot of feelings. You might as well sit down and write a good review. But how to write the feeling after reading? The following are 1300 words that I carefully arranged after watching Lifelong Growth. Welcome to draw lessons from and refer to. I hope it helps you.

In the past two weeks, I used my spare time to read Carol Dwek's Life's Growth. I bought this book as early as 20xx, but it has been quietly placed in the bookcase without even tearing the plastic film. After all, this kind of book is not as good as books on literature, history and philosophy, so reading this book is a great challenge for myself.

When it comes to reading, many people's first reaction is "I can't read any more". Here, I also share my reading experience in recent years. It's very simple, there are only two points: the first is to study wholeheartedly, don't read from east to west, and never read another book until one book is finished (I only read two non-professional books at most, one in the office, and I have to take a ten-minute break before I get tired of taking a nap or reading for a while after work; Keep one in your bag or at home for easy reading); Second, reading should quickly break through 30% of the whole book, because most books will have their own internal structure. No matter how close you are, you can't delay reading. If the first 30% of a book is not finished, it will be difficult to advance later, and the longer it takes, the less confident it will be. The same is true of lifelong growth in reading. You can quickly read the first 100 pages, and then easily read the remaining 200 pages.

Closer to home, this book is called Lifelong Growth, the content of which is actually to let people know the fixed and growing thinking mode and teach readers how to establish the growing thinking mode.

The so-called fixed thinking mode means that everything is fixed. People with this type of thinking mode always like to label themselves or others as "genius", "smart", "stupid" and "ugly", and it is difficult to change. They often use the words "I/you/he (she)/he (she) always do this or that". "Why is someone always targeting me?" Everything is fate "... and so on.

The so-called growth thinking mode thinks that everything can be changed and become better, but the premise is that we need to work hard. Even if you make a mistake, you should learn from it, instead of complaining about others or blaming yourself too much.

When it comes to fixed thinking mode and growth thinking mode, they coexist in traditional education in China. For example, as the old people often say, "At the age of three, they look down on their elders; at the age of seven, they look down on their elders." This is a typical thinking set. Many "prodigies" finally failed because they stopped working hard, and for many hours their qualifications were average, but they made some achievements because of their continuous study efforts. This shows that "three-year-olds look down on their elders, and seven-year-olds look down on their elders" is a typical thinking set, which is not desirable. No matter how old the child is, no matter what the current situation is, the attitude of parents should be like the sentence in "Soldier Assault": "Don't abandon, don't give up". I believe that children will change and become better. Of course, the premise is that parents should also change, and the ideal thing is to grow up with their children.

As for the example of growth thinking, you can read Fan's Four Disciplines and find the answer from the comic book Nezha. Whether "life is made by myself, happiness is for myself" or "my life depends on me" is a typical growth-oriented thinking, so I won't go into details here.

A few days ago, I told my daughter not to trust any constellation and blood type too much, just told her that any constellation could give birth to a president or a murderer; There are billionaires and beggars; A knowledgeable scholar can also be illiterate ... then I asked her: what does the constellation mean? Think about it and answer: When is the representative born? This is the answer given by the children in the fifth grade of primary school after being inspired. Isn't it the same when you think about it?

Next, let's talk about why we should establish a growth-oriented thinking mode and the habit of lifelong learning. Because change is the only constant in the universe, good flowers don't bloom often, and youth doesn't exist often, it is impossible for us to continue to board the fast-moving ship with a work ticket we got at school. Even if some of us are smart, if we don't continue to study but keep overdrawing our intelligence, we will eventually run out like passive water. Therefore, only by constantly learning, establishing growth-oriented thinking and exercising brain muscles can we not live a life of "today is tomorrow" like the protagonist in the movie groundhog day.

The same is true for individuals and businesses. An enterprise still needs to have a growth mode of thinking. As Fan Deng said in his recommendation, "peter drucker once said a famous saying: Management is to stimulate the goodwill of others to the greatest extent. But the word goodwill is too general. What kind of goodwill do we need to inspire? Finally, I found an answer close to the answer in Lifelong Growth.

Finally, I hope that no matter whether you are growing up or starting a business, you will abandon fixed thinking and gradually establish a growth thinking mode, and don't label a person or an organization with various labels, especially negative labels. Therefore, I recommend the book Lifelong Growth to you. Those who are interested can read it, and those who have no time or confidence to finish reading the paper book can also listen to the audio. After all, it is never too late to change, learn and grow.