What do you think of the TV series Tiger Mom and Cat Dad?

I had heard of the play before I saw it. Zhao Wei and David, as leading actors, are their favorite actors, and their theme is children's education, so I feel that this TV series must be watched. However, in line with the principle that art comes from life above life, I don't have much hope for its practical significance, just want to watch the excitement. But after watching the whole drama, its huge amount of information and its educational significance to reality still made my mind a little confused, and I didn't know where to start at the moment.

The play is called Tiger Mom and Cat Dad, as if husband and wife are the same protagonist. But after reading it, I found that Bi Shengnan is the first protagonist, and Russell, as the cat father, is at best the most important supporting role (concentration and mud). Since Bi is the absolute protagonist, let's start with her.

Zhao Wei, who plays Bi, is my favorite actress. The actor himself is beautiful and works hard in his personal career. Judging from the recent work "Dear" and this TV series, the progress of acting is obvious. However, it is one thing to like actors. Looking back on this drama, I can say that in the first 20 episodes, I hated the role of Bi Shengnan. Psychopaths, paranoia, and inhumanity. It is not an exaggeration to use too many words to describe her in the first 20 episodes. As a strong woman with a strong nature and a successful career, it is the ultimate to achieve this level in children's education. In order to get Cece to attend the so-called No.1 primary school, she stubbornly changed the school district, made a scene in the sales office, "hijacked" the dean, delayed going to school for one year, resigned and trained at home, and so on. Obviously, this is the artistic technique of TV series, which focuses a lot of real situations on one person, reflecting that parents in big cities really try their best to send their children to school. At the same time, from another angle, it is easy to think of how much mental pressure parents have brought to their children before they go to school. After Tang Lin's appearance, the mood of the characters changed, which greatly changed my view of Bi. Tang Lin, Russell's ex-girlfriend in college, seems to have only one purpose to return to China as a foreign education expert, that is, "to get back what should belong to her." To put it simply, Tang Lin only did one thing in the play, and that was to separate Bi and Russell. But the screenwriter is also very good. How to stimulate and edit is really unbearable for people like me who don't like watching dog blood dramas. However, in this context, in order to better educate children, or to find a better educational method, Bi personally consulted Tang Lin many times, and also took the initiative to learn and improve himself according to Tang Lin's suggestion. Under the influence of various factors, Bi began to question his success. Although he was admitted to a good university and had a successful career after graduation, he was often awakened by nightmares and had mild paranoia and obsessive-compulsive disorder. He was "not romantic at all" and questioned whether it was right or wrong to be educated by his father when he was a child.

Finally, under the education of various educational methods, Luo Xixi finally got depressed, didn't talk every day, and occasionally went crazy. Bi finally found her own educational method, cured her daughter's childhood depression, and cooperated with Tang Lin to try to spread this educational method to others. As for whether it can be promoted successfully, the plot is not explained, but the children are having a good time on the farm. Throughout the whole drama, it is basically based on Bi's mental journey, which unfolds the plot bit by bit and finally ends. The main conflict in TV plays comes from the collision of various educational ideas around children's education. In the second half, although divorced, the story of the third-class dog was chaotic, and even the elders of the older generation began to save money to "raise the third class." It seems that the main line of educating children has deviated, but personally, these contents are all from another angle. It should not be a digression to describe that parents bring their emotions home after being influenced by society, which in turn affects their children's growth. In the play, the sissy grandfather told the children that as long as they use the winning strategy and study hard, their parents can make up for it. Then Cece really went crazy, reciting words every day and doing problems every afternoon 1 1, and finally fell ill under pressure. Although it is exaggerated, the influence of family on children can be seen from this.

The play is full of all kinds of educational methods, such as grandma's girl being educated into a princess and marrying a good family in the future; Grandpa's children should learn some Chinese studies and have cultural literacy; Dad's happy and healthy childhood; Grandpa's military training education; Grandma's love dotes on it and lets it develop freely. But every kind of education gives counterexamples in the play. For example, grandma's educational philosophy, there are abandoned aunts in the play; Grandpa's educational philosophy, there are cut rice paper as toilet paper in the play; Dad's, he himself is a counterexample, weak and uncompetitive; Grandpa didn't want to tell him at the student party that even his granddaughter had childhood depression; Wait a minute. The play did not say which way of education is right and which is wrong. Instead, it describes the possible consequences of various educational methods in the way of plot development. In Bi's words, the play seems to be talking about "different educational ideas colliding with each other to see if there is anything I want". In the end, Bi found her own education method, but obviously parents won't buy it, because everyone worked hard to send their children to the first primary school, obviously not for the so-called "happy growth". In this regard, the retired Minister of Education in the play told the truth: "Now the social competition is so fierce that parents are forced. I believe that this situation will gradually change in the future. " ? From the perspective of role-building, Bi is undoubtedly the most successful and plump one. As a cat father, Russell did his duty to ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many people say that he is weak and has no ideas, but I think he is sacrificing his life for justice and putting the overall situation first. In the play, he also educated Du Bingbing, punched Xue Zifeng, and finally rejected Tang Lin's bridge, which shows that he is thoughtful, reasonable and can stand out. It's just that there is a tiger mother, and all he has to do is "have a good game". Tang Lin, like I said before, is concerned about family breakdown. Judging from the plot, she is a selfish, conceited person who does not know how to cherish. As an expert in education, she can't even educate her own daughter. I will only live in memories and refuse to face reality. Although I study abroad and have an enviable job, I should be a complete failure. Rodin should be a little princess under grandma's educational concept. When she grew up, she married Xue Zifeng. Later, her husband went abroad to work hard, and she ran a red wine winery in China. She has nothing to do every day, so she drinks and chats with her classmates and friends. Then Xue Zifeng returned to China and divorced. She cried her eyes out. I really don't know how she would have survived if Bi Shengnan hadn't helped her ask for assets. She should be regarded as a failure. Grandpa Bi Daqian, an old teacher who has taught in rural middle schools for more than 40 years, said that "he later became a principal" and seemed quite proud. He trained a large number of outstanding students and realized everyone's dream of success by his own inventions. At first glance, this kind of education is beautiful. For the sake of future success, it is worthwhile to suffer a little when I was a child. But in Russell's words, "isn't there Bi Ran? Isn't your success rate only 50%? " This is also the case. The children educated in this way have a strong ability to withstand pressure from childhood, but they have slight mental illness. At least they can go to a good university and have a good job, such as Bi Shengnan. The ability to withstand pressure is better, such as Luo Xixi with childhood depression, and the ability to withstand pressure is worse like Bi Ran who is derailed and derailed. At the end of the TV series, Bi Daqian also began to reflect on his own educational methods. Of course it didn't work out. However, from the tears of Grandpa in the play, we can see that although his education method may not be perfect, his love for children is so real, which represents the fatherly image of some families, including my own father. He is not good at communication, but he has his own unique expression.

Other characters don't say it. Everyone has his own story, but as a supporting role, there are inevitably some relatively dull roles.

Reality is always cruel, but hope is always good. Every episode and even every scene of this urban light comedy is full of love, maternal love, fatherly love, between husband and wife, between grandparents, between friends, between colleagues and so on. , is a TV series full of love; But every episode is full of conflicts, and I am addicted to watching it. (What is this mentality? )。 It is in this kind of love and quarrel that the bloody educational reality is depicted and the future is full of hope. It is a down-to-earth good drama, which I personally think is worth watching.