Nan Zhou in Half-baked Lovers has been being herself. How important is it to be yourself?

Nan Zhou is a typical post-hero. In this issue, her three changes made everyone fall in love with this girl. Love begins with perfection, and love begins with imperfection.

(1) Accept yourself

? "I need to be hurt, I'm not an iron man. If you want to be the best at everything, only the advantages, then you are violence. First of all, we need to accept our limitations. I have never accepted my "ID" because I am not good enough. If you think you are not good enough, others really have many reasons to pua you. Self-acceptance is not self-affirmation, but accepting your own imperfections is the perfect beginning! Dear girl, the way you sympathize with yourself like others is really sincere.

It's not your fault that someone else left.

? It may take a while for you to say "It's not my fault", but Nan Zhou immediately said "It's really bad, this misunderstanding is not my fault". In my previous notes, I have analyzed Emily, another woman who fell in love with a therapist. Why did Emily bring love rat back in the face of cold violence, and the recovery of another girl directly led to the breakup? → "having an independent personality" is the reason. Obviously, some changes made by others are not your own fault. Taking an attitude and loving yourself is the first thing. Compromise and self-doubt will only lead to unhealthy relationships.

Only when you are comfortable can you meet people who are in tune.

? This move is invincible. In all love affairs, any guest who takes this action will gain sincere friends and fans. At the end of the program, Nan Nan also realized this truth. Only by accepting the "ID" and showing the "ID" can we attract people with the same frequency. When two comfortable people are together, the lowest relationship is friends. Just like Luo Ying's casual hair, Lola's casual cross-legged, and Lin Yujue's big healthy teapot. → The best state of comfort is "peace", and the highest state is to make everyone "safe". Lin Yuxi is such a person. She is really the most comfortable and comfortable in the whole network. Anyone with her can be calm and peaceful. Even if she is not the most beautiful, her clothes are not good-looking, and the people she likes don't like her, she still has no black comments. This is the charm of "comfort".

? You see, you are beautiful, versatile and gentle. These are not the reasons why people love you. Embracing your own imperfections, being honest with yourself and being yourself are the beginning of deep contact with others. You become yourself and others fall in love with you.