What is the constellation that other people's hearts can see through at a glance, but their own hearts can't?

The constellation that can never see through his heart must be cancer. He looks at other people's emotional problems like a wise man, who knows everything and can see everything clearly, but when he looks at his own affairs, he will easily go astray and never escape from the whirlpool of feelings.

As a typical cancer, I understand this truth best. When a friend has an emotional dispute, I can calmly explain it to them. I can handle it from the perspective of my friend or the other party. They all think that my emotional intelligence is particularly high, but when dealing with my own affairs, I am actually very confused.

I don't know my level. In front of the person you like, you can't even express yourself bravely. When I do emotional analysis for my friends, I always tell them to be brave and not to leave regrets for themselves, but it's my turn to be speechless and dare not say anything or mention anything.

Maybe if you put something on yourself, you will think more. We all know that the authorities are blind to the beholder, but we must see our hearts clearly. Otherwise, you don't even know what you want, and you can't get real happiness. Then all your pursuits and efforts will always be in vain.

In today's society, we must learn to keep our eyes open and know what we want. Know what you don't want. You must be rational, and you can't get darker and darker on the road of feelings, otherwise you may gradually find yourself with some scum physique and meet people who are unfaithful to feelings.