Speaking of self-motivation, what constellation can you beat?

I think this may have little to do with the constellation, but it has a lot to do with the growing environment, growing process and parents' teaching, because my predecessor and I are both Aries, but one is particularly progressive and the other is not at all.

My predecessor and I belong to Aries, and our family conditions are not good, so we cherish the opportunity to study. I also believe that only reading can change fate. So when I was at school, others were eating, drinking and having fun, but I was immersed in reading all day. I just do part-time jobs to earn money to support myself when I have time. At that time, I had my own goals in life, and I wanted to find a good job.

My predecessor's family condition is actually very general, that is, a student in a small city and a small rural area. However, due to the spoiled relationship between his parents since childhood, he felt a little "expensive" and belonged to the kind of person who used all his food and drink well and kept squeezing his parents. Of course, I really didn't know about these jobs before.

We are fellow villagers. We met and fell in love in our junior year. At that time, I studied hard and worked part-time to support myself. He always plays games and sleeps, but he still does so after graduation. He is willing to deal with everything. I also have people who study hard around me, but I don't think anyone in any constellation will be better than me at night.

Later, because my predecessor was not motivated, I chose to break up. I can work hard with him from scratch, but I can't drag someone who doesn't want to move forward, so I choose to give him up.