A creature like man.

I believe that the recent passages of Qiu Yingying and Qin Ying in Ode to Joy should make many people angry. The reason why most people are angry may be that there is such a straight man called "virgin complex" around them! They will judge others with their own values, judge others with their own moral standards, stand proudly at what he calls the "highest moral point" and be their own "saints".

They like to struggle, make choices, judge and wander ... many times, they will fall into their own trap and cannot extricate themselves.

I have a male friend who often talks to me about his girlfriend, especially when he and his girlfriend have problems. He said he couldn't hold on any longer. He can't stand his girlfriend breaking up for such a trivial matter, but he loves his girlfriend so much that he can't bear to get angry with her.

This friend and his girlfriend have been together for less than a month and have been on and off two or three times. I don't know if they will feel tired with such feelings. I'm tired anyway.

Before choosing the best partner, men will make various comparisons, such as figure, appearance and personality ... Of course, everyone's standards are different. After weighing all aspects, they will determine the best one and then start attacking.

Don't say that men only think with their lower bodies. Most men still weigh and compare. Therefore, men are ready to spend their lives with you before they decide to be with you.

Then why are so many couples not together in the end? There must be something in it: distrust, doubt, doubt. But it all boils down to: thinking too much.

When you are in love, you should trust each other. Don't worry too much. What's the point of sticking to what hasn't happened yet? It is better to cherish the status quo, fall in love happily, relax and keep fresh.

I told my friend: Don't worry too much. When disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, you will naturally know and let go.

There are many articles on the Internet that will write: How to fix the boyfriend's heart? How to win the * * constellation? ..... can only be pure entertainment. If you are serious, you are asking for trouble.

Don't think too complicated about men. I used to chat with my boyfriend by SMS. I said a lot here, but he made other trivial things lightly. I felt hurt at first, and my boyfriend was ungrateful and indifferent. But after a long contact, I found that men and women really have different ways of thinking and different points of concern.

Therefore, women, don't bother yourself, try to think from the standpoint and angle of men, and everything will become very simple. As long as your general direction is the same, those are not problems.

So, this creature, this person, in a word, is both complicated and simple. If you want to conquer him, I will give you four words: empathy.