Qiu Chen said in Kippa's Story that fear of marriage is not a disease. How did you overcome your fear of marriage?

On the topic of fear of marriage, I think everyone should exist, especially in single-parent families or when I was a child, having experienced parents and disharmonious families, I will have the attitude of fear of marriage. When I was a child, my parents often quarreled, which basically belonged to the kind of three-day small quarrel and five-day big quarrel, so I was very resistant to marriage because I was afraid that it would still be like this on the wedding day. If you ask me how I overcame my fear of marriage, I think it is the nourishment of love.

It was not until I met the most important person in my life that I believed that everything could be overcome. In fact, there is no need to quarrel in marriage. The key is whether two people's personalities are tolerant and tolerant of each other, so the contradiction can't be deepened. Therefore, people with extreme personalities should not be together even if all conditions are suitable, and those with bad temper will only quarrel endlessly.

Because my personality is a little grumpy, and my wife is a well-known good temper of Aries, I know that he has been tolerant of me for so many years, and I cherish our feelings. Try to control your temper and don't vent like a relative. With the growth of age, people's hearts will become mature, especially after the age of 30, eager to get married. I think this inner desire is also a point to overcome their fear of marriage.

Many people don't want to get married because their standards for choosing a spouse are too high and they haven't met the person who is really worth paying for. So we can choose to wait on the road of life, but on the way of waiting, we should also get rid of our shortcomings and greet our other half with the most perfect posture.