What is the constellation of Cheng Ruimin Cheng Ruimin's wife?

What did Sun Jiayu write in The Woman in the Lattice?

A fragment describing Sun Jiayu:

Sun Jiayu is a good friend, and he is the three musketeers in the school, and Sun is the second child.

"In those days, the second child was a fool. I didn't expect you to be more stupid than him. Three teenagers in their late teens sat side by side on the stone fence, smiling brightly at the camera. Although young, but looks compared with today, it seems that there is not much change, you can recognize it at a glance. In the photo, the rigorous grin is unbridled, while Cheng Ruimin's smile is very convergent, but his head is straight with two fingers, which at first glance looks like a snail's tentacles. And the owner of the finger, with a face of innocent expectations, smiled pure and clear.

His description is the best of the three brothers, with clear facial features. Tan Bin couldn't help looking at his eyes carefully. "Have you ever experienced the death of a friend or relative?" Once for grandpa and once for my brother.

"When my grandfather left, I was a freshman. Suddenly, I had a cerebral hemorrhage. He left without any psychological preparation. I have been in a daze, but I just can't cry. Later, I dreamed of him again, and I woke up to understand what the eternal separation between man and nature is, but the most painful time has passed, and it has become a blunt knife to cut meat, which has been painful and can be tolerated at last. When Jiayu left ... Remember three musketeers? Second, Sun Jiayu ... Do you want to hear it? "

The boy who looked as dazzling as a star, Tan Bin remembered it clearly, and she nodded.

Cheng Ruimin's voice is calm, as if telling a story that has nothing to do with him.

It seems to be windy outside. The west wind beat against the French window. Accompanied by the whining wind, Tan Bin heard the tragic past in a foreign country.

"He knew that his days were numbered, so he let his girlfriend leave without telling her, and then returned to China ... Have you ever seen a patient with terminal cancer? It is said that in the end, the patient died of pain rather than disease, and all consciousness was gone, only pain remained, and he struggled with * * and Demerol, suffering day by day. He never mentioned his girlfriend's name, and one day he suddenly said to me,' Xiaoyao, if I leave her selfishly, won't I be so afraid when I walk on the road?' I immediately collapsed and asked someone to search for the girl's whereabouts, but he didn't say anything that night, just left with a sigh. "

Tan Bin speechless, groping for the back of his hand, tightly holding it.

"At that time, I really know what pain is. I hugged him and cried. I refused to be pushed away. If someone advises me, I will swear back until I am forced to be sedated. Ah, really ... "Cheng Ruimin shook his head as if laughing, but his eyelashes kept shaking. "Later, I managed to inform the girl. I can't stand my brother being misunderstood. Stiffness has always blamed me for failing his painstaking efforts, and I still don't know what I did wrong. "

Tan Bin looked up and thought carefully, and said, "This has nothing to do with right or wrong. If you don't tell her, she may force herself to forget, but she won't forget the hurt in her heart, leaving only resentment against men. You tell her that the person in the past, she may remember, her life may gradually become indifferent, but she will always remember that someone once loved her so much. She will live two completely different lives. "

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Book review of The Woman in the Compartment;

There are indeed gender restrictions on women's sales, and there must be enough discretion in advancing and retreating. Customers are mostly middle-aged men in their forties and fifties. It is debatable whether the future is boundless after struggling for more than ten or twenty years to climb to today's position, but personal life has long been stereotyped. The biggest adjustment in daily life is infinite peach fantasy and limited local execution.

Going beyond the level of complaint is really a taboo in the office. Every management mode relies on the existing structure to maintain balance, and leapfrog is a subversion of this structure, and few companies deliberately tolerate or encourage this behavior.

Flattery or unconditional obedience can't win the trust of the boss. You can appreciate his strengths and make up for his weaknesses, which is a shortcut to maintain trust. You don't want to be despised, first of all, you must have capital that is not despised.

Newcomers to the workplace are at the bottom. As long as you are willing to endure hardships, be a little more serious and diligent, you will stand out. It's hard to climb to the middle level, and each other's IQ is similar. Everyone has some special abilities. At this time, whether you have extensive contacts and long-term vision has become an important weight to the next level.

Think of the boss as a customer? You sell products to customers, but you sell yourself to the boss. What is the difference between good and bad in the workplace? It is even more inappropriate for a boss to judge by quality. Can only be fair or unfair. You work for him, contribute your time and energy, and he gives you resources and opportunities for personal development. The two sides exchange equally, as long as the transaction is fair, it will be OK. As for what is incompatible, it is not a professional expression.

Working in a big company, don't take being anxious as a virtue. Step by step, protecting yourself is the most important thing.

Resignation in a fit of pique was only a happy event at that time, and most of them regretted it afterwards. It is said that the world is as black as a crow. If you don't find the real crux of your failure, you will still encounter the same problem in another place. Resignation may bring temporary relief, but it only gets rid of the cause of the problem, not the problem itself.