What are the common negative effects of family background on women?

From the psychological point of view, there are three common negative effects of family background on women. 1, strong mother and weak father. Growing up in such a family, the child's character may also become strong. In the relationship, I especially think of taking the lead and making my partner obey myself, because they have only seen this kind of getting along mode and think that "getting along with parents" is familiar to her. Although she thinks it is not good to be too rational, people always have a familiar sense of security. Therefore, she will strongly make her partner listen to her. If her partner is not as weak as her father, she will fight back, and the two will continue to quarrel and attack, and their feelings will get worse and worse, and eventually their feelings will break up. 2. Parents seldom love themselves (or have been fostered in relatives' homes since childhood). In such a family, children may lack love, so they will become particularly eager for love, and their personality is likely to become sensitive and insecure because of lack of love, especially afraid of being abandoned. Because of the lack of love, they are particularly afraid that once someone is kind to them, they will be abandoned, so they will show the characteristics of anxiety and often worry that their other half will leave them. Whenever their partner doesn't respond, they will feel that the sky is falling and send him a lot of messages in a panic. Once your partner has nothing to say to avoid contradictions every time he quarrels, your inner panic will be aroused and you will become very angry. Such two people will get along very tired, because the partner should always take care of your emotions and maintain your inner security. After a long time, they will want to leave you because they are tired. This mother is very sensitive and always pays attention to her children. There are many such mothers who pay too much attention to their children, and their lives may be very unfortunate, so they often say to their children, "If it weren't for you, I wouldn't be like this." Children's hearts are filled with a lot of powerlessness and guilt. Such children may be very sensitive when they grow up and often lose their temper, because their inner powerlessness often makes them angry, so it is difficult to control their temper. When I grow up, I will be very insecure and especially eager for love, but I will also push my partner away because of my bad temper, and my partner will always be stung by her emotions. Uncertainty and a sense of security to be filled by your partner will push your partner further and further, and eventually part ways. Many of the characteristics we present in our feelings are actually influenced by our family background, and these influences will interfere with our behavior, make actions that destroy our feelings, and affect our happiness in adulthood. However, we talk about being born in a family in order to find the reason to solve the problem. The focus is on "solving problems", rather than throwing all emotional problems to the family and parents. The problem exists objectively and needs our rational solution. We need to see that family of origin's problems do exist and belong to the past, but we are not solving the problems of the past, but the "traces left on us" and "influences on our current behavior" of the past.