Don't let the world change your rhythm. Which book of Lu Sihao's?

Don't let the world change your rhythm.

Lu sihao

Don't let the world change your rhythm. When everyone regards dreams as melodramatic, stubbornness as childish, efforts as moaning without illness, and cowardice as truth, they can only say that their hearts are dead. In this fast food society, I became a fast food person. When someone can't help sneering at other people's dreams, all you have to do is stretch out your middle finger and say fuck you. I have my dream and I will protect it. I accompanied Timmy to the bookstore to buy books that day. He studies design very hard. In my impression, he never goes to bed early. Several times in the middle of the night, when I finished writing my thesis or watching movies as usual, I could find him still busy with his hard-working painting homework on the Internet.

One day, he said to me, "What do you mean, we leave home and work hard in this hellhole on the other side of the ocean?" At that time, I remembered a sentence and said to him, "In the final analysis, we drifted to a foreign land to accept suffering because we wanted to, not because we asked for it. Haha, you have to live like this to feel at ease, just touch yourself. "

He said, "Haha, you are still so philosophical. That's right. I just want to give myself a chance to load screenshots of my awesome design works into Weibo. I must give myself a chance to compete with those awesome people, while I am still young. " This is one of the things that impressed me deeply, and because of this, I also wrote a blog post specially.

Another thing is that I have been preparing for a long trip. I checked the information on the internet and went to the hotel to get a visa. I even bought a plane ticket, but when I was about to leave, I began to hesitate, as if I was not the person I promised.

I went to ask him how he and S went to other countries alone before, and whether they would get lost or something. S looked at me indifferently, as if in her eyes, this was never a question that needed to be answered. Timmy said to me, "The only question you have to consider is do you really want to go there?" Everything after departure is not important. "

Later, I wrote in Loneliness is Your Compulsory Course: You must find your own pace of life. Only by starting can you get there. You can't go anywhere without a start. Setting out is the most meaningful thing. Suddenly found that people who have been hesitant and undecided are qualified to realize their dreams.

A long time ago, I used to brush "Everyone" and "Weibo" on the Internet. Seeing many people's travel photos uploaded, I am envious. Conversely, I saw several posts describing how they established themselves in Shanghai and Wall Street, and I was full of admiration. I immediately made up my mind to recite the unfinished words, and then looked up a lot of information on the internet to prepare for the next place to go. And then what? Then I didn't go anywhere.

-Why aren't you going anywhere?

I admit that I have been a serious procrastinator. This problem stems from an assignment a long time ago, a 2000-word composition, which was posted fifteen days in advance. I didn't start doing it until two days ago. The sense of urgency and anxiety prompted me to write all the time, but I got good grades.

So I began to take a chance and felt that I was only suitable for working under high pressure for a short time before the deadline. As a result, this habit slowly began to spread, from my homework to my usual life, to my late sleep, and then to countless times I made up my mind but didn't go anywhere.

I understand that what is holding me back is my expanding ideas and slower and slower actions. If I need something like Deadline to remind me every time, I'll just be running around all my life, busy with one task after another, and lose the ability to learn actively.

However, the harm of procrastination lies not only in study, but also in all aspects of life. For example, the trip mentioned above, because of delay, finally lost the initial motivation and yearning. The same is true of dreams.

-How to kill procrastination?

I've been thinking about this problem for a long time, and finally I came up with a truth: all external factors will not make you recover from procrastination, because no matter what kind of plan you make, there will always be external factors that interfere with you.

If we don't want to grieve for the loss of our talents and shed tears for our youth one day in the future, if we don't want to delay and hesitate every time we make a decision, if we don't want such a specious life, then we must find our own rhythm.

To put it simply, go ahead at your own pace from the beginning, and tell yourself that reality does not allow you to delay, and you should take action, even if every step is slow, but you should take action.

After realizing this, I realized that I had to change. One day, I got up early for the first time and went to the library. I took the book brought from China and read it all day. I didn't close the book until I was really hungry. At that time, I found that the more anxious I was, the more I delayed, because I piled up too much. Just like a vicious circle, because there are many things to see, I don't want to see them; Because I don't want to see it, the pile is getting more and more. Later, anxiety became more and more serious, and there was no way to start. So the best way is to act.

Is it really that difficult to recite hundreds of words a month? Is it really that difficult to read a book a week? Actually, is it really that difficult to take a trip with a camera? Yes, I know you will say that traveling is a bit cool, and holding a SLR is really like pretending to be forced. In this age when young artists are spoofed, too many things are defined as melodramatic, and even many times their dreams always make people feel absurd. Yes, you hate being said, but is other people's opinion really that important? Do you want to wait until you see him admitted to the university you want to go to, and then take the photos you want to take?

The so-called dream is that when you start chasing it, you know that your dream may not come true, but you will still pursue it. If you run out of inspiring things, recreate those positive things. If the choice begins to stagnate, you will run away alone and see the world alone.

Because dreams are a one-way street, you can't go back when you walk up.

The most boring thing about watching a TV series is only the first few episodes, and the most troublesome thing about memorizing words is only the days when I decided to start memorizing. The most boring thing about reading is often the first chapter at the beginning. Keep doing it and constantly change the way to motivate yourself until it becomes a habit and a part of you, and you will find that the habit is not that difficult. When these become your habits, you will naturally not delay any more.

-Why do we often backfire?

Recently, I often hear people say to me, "Kevin, you know, many things are destiny takes a hand." Dreams are just fantasies. "The person you want to hold on to will leave you, even if you never want to lose her; There are always people who say that you are not good enough at what you desperately want to do, even if you have tried your best. Obviously, you are not the one who was hurt, but the first one who knelt down and cried; You are the one who obviously doesn't want to leave, but you are the first to say goodbye; You didn't do anything wrong, you said you were sorry first. You wronged yourself again and again just because you didn't want to be out of tune with the world.

What does the world tell you? It tells you that dreams are difficult to realize, and it is always a few people who realize their dreams; It tells you that love is hard to exist and the protagonist in a romantic love story will never be you; It tells you that getting along is a very difficult thing, and sometimes you can't do it well even if you work hard; It tells you that many times the people you like don't like you, and they often don't even care about you. The world tells you that not all efforts have results.

You see many people every day, but you can't understand their hearts; You know their names, their constellations, but you don't know their thoughts; You know where they come from and who they like, but what they think of you. Smile and say hello at the meeting, that's all. And then what, just give up?

Is this the life you want? Repeating over and over again, living in seeking others' affirmation, but never thinking about whether I am really happy. I yawn every day when I squeeze into the subway. When I arrived at the company, I looked at the computer screen with dull eyes, which more and more met the requirements of others and became more and more numb. Most of the problems you face disgust you. They keep asking you painful questions, but you can't show anything. You can only smile and agree or try your best to perfunctory. The terrible thing is not that your life is coming to an end, but that your life has never really begun.

-keep your own pace in the face of a dangerous world.

In fact, the problem of most people is that they can't see hope and dare not work hard, or they have stopped their present steps because of past failures. Then remember: never avoid your past, let alone associate your future with the past. It doesn't matter whether there is hope or not, which way is not important, what matters is that you are willing to work hard for it and then see hope. When you feel confused and sad, ask yourself why you recite over and over again, why you get up early over and over again, and why you revise your paper over and over again. The answer is: Do not forget your initiative mind, don't let the world disturb your rhythm.

The more you think about it, the more annoyed you are. When you don't think about anything, you can move on. The more afraid you are, the more difficulties you will have. When you are not afraid of anything, everything is not that difficult. This is the world. When you dare not realize your dream, it will get farther and farther away from you. When you bravely pursue your dreams, the whole world will help you.

When you face the sudden blow of the world, you need to extend your middle finger and tell the world to fuck you! Tell the world, fuck you, I am me, you are you, I still believe in love, I still believe in dreams, I like listening to my favorite songs and screaming loudly. I just want to pursue what I care about and you don't care about, so I just go my own way. Sorry, I'm not familiar with your world! If you want to ask me what youth is, I'll say that youth is your love, and everything else is fucking.

Behind all the arrogance is the high wall of suffering, and behind all the suffering is the persistence that others can't see again and again. Only you know your future.

So, in any case, no matter what others think, do what you want to do, and work hard until you can't persist. Since the explanation is not clear, I won't explain it. No one cares about your youth, and don't let others affect your youth. The world doesn't care about you so much, and don't let the world change your rhythm.