Which constellations are workplace exhibitionists?

The "flash divorce" in life refers to those who get divorced soon after marriage, even those who get married in the morning and divorce in the afternoon. Then, in today's workplace, "flash away" refers to those who suddenly leave their jobs not long after joining the company, saying they quit. So, in our twelve constellations, which constellations are workplace flash families?

Aries constellation

Cause of flashover: three-point heat

As a member of the new college students, Aries is undoubtedly the most enthusiastic and even the most full state. This constellation, which is always full of curiosity and enthusiasm for the outside world, will not resist the change from student identity to social identity like some constellations. They have even made full preparations for this, including consulting with the seniors who have graduated from the workplace and consulting the information and relevant suggestions related to their positions on the Internet. However, there is a difference between other people's experiences and their own feelings. This difference is often unacceptable to Aries, who always tend to attribute this phenomenon to the work itself ("it doesn't seem to suit me") rather than looking for reasons on themselves. In particular, when it is found that the new job "may not be suitable for you", Aries thinks more about how to adjust itself to the new situation and more about leaving. This is also an important reason for Aries's "workplace flash away".

Suggestion: When you doubt the fit between work and yourself, try to adjust your mentality and try to ask yourself to do your best to adapt to the environment instead of forcing the environment to adapt to yourself.

fishes

Reason for running away: emotional reaction

Pisces people are easily influenced by their emotions, so they will do something that others find abrupt and difficult to understand. When this feature is shown in the workplace, it often shows greater instability. Especially as college graduates, a group with large variables and strong instability, the emotional side of Pisces is more likely to be brought into play. It is not easy for them to change from a student to a social worker. Nervousness, anxiety and even depression may become their concentrated emotional reactions during this period. Therefore, after joining the job, many seemingly small things may become the fuse of their "workplace flash away". For example, the criticism of the predecessors in the workplace, the distrust or neglect of the leaders, and the mistakes caused by the unfamiliarity with the work content may all be the incentives to stimulate Pisces to be angry with themselves, reprimand themselves for "how can you be so stupid" or fall into self-pity of "I just can't do it".

Suggestion: always remind yourself to deal with problems with a calm and rational attitude and correctly treat all kinds of inadaptability when you enter the workplace. We must firmly believe that these are only temporary difficulties and difficulties that everyone will encounter. You are not much worse than others, don't be too sensitive!

Gemini

Reason for leaving: blindly following the trend

Gemini people have super social skills and like to get all kinds of information they need from the process of contact with others. Many times, this kind of personality is your own advantage, but if this kind of "like" becomes "habit" or even "dependence", I'm afraid you need to look at this problem from another angle. Unfortunately, for most Gemini graduates, they often rely too much on their friends' opinions rather than their own judgments when facing the unknown workplace life. Moreover, many times, bystanders don't know all the details of a situation better than the parties, so their opinions and suggestions may not really have reference value. However, Gemini still stubbornly copies every suggestion of his friends, and it is too easy to be depressed and self-denying after hitting a wall. Who knows why they did it? Perhaps it is because making your own decision means bearing all the corresponding consequences, and shirking responsibility is a more attractive option in many cases.

Suggestion: It is better to rely on yourself than others. Try to give the decision-making power to the clever mind that you have always been proud of. I believe that after trying, you will find it very interesting to make your own decisions and take responsibility for them-this is also one of the rights we can ask for from life as adults.

Sagittarius

The reason for running away: overconfidence

If you are asked about your future career plan before you join the company, Sagittarius people can talk for hours (as long as they have an audience), so you can't help but be fascinated by their abundant self-confidence and passionate enthusiasm. However, this confident attitude can't bless them to escape from the strange circle of "workplace flash away" after joining the company. If you are asked the reason after leaving your job, the shooter will tell you with a smile that "this place is not suitable for me", and make you realize with subtext such as tone and expression that they are abandoning this job that has just been abandoned! Indeed, as a college graduate, it is difficult to find a job with a high starting point just after entering the society. More often, they have to start from the grassroots. No wonder shooters complain that this new job makes them feel tied down and unable to carry out it! However, in today's increasingly severe employment situation, it is a blessing to have a job opportunity. Many shooters have finally begun to reflect on their impatience to leave after making plans to find another job and failing many times.

Suggestion: Self-confidence is a good thing, but we should also look at our actual situation objectively. There is no harm in making more horizontal comparisons. In addition, you should learn to cherish your existing opportunities and take a long-term view!

virgo

Reason for leaving: perfectionism

For Virgo people, no matter what aspect they give up, the reason is probably "you are already good, but still not good enough", which is also the main reason why Virgo newcomers "flash away". Because they always pursue the perfection of every detail and can't stand any shortcomings, there is always a tendency to be too picky about the surrounding environment in the eyes of outsiders. Although in their minds, those "shortcomings" may be serious injuries, in the eyes of others, they are actually just harmless minor faults. More importantly, as a fresh graduate, we should always learn to adapt to the environment and accept the shortcomings-whether from the environment or ourselves. Of course, the so-called perfectionism is also of positive significance in professional life, but it should be reflected in its own requirements, not used to criticize Jobs, a fait accompli. Virgo's mentality of "not what I want, so I'd rather be short than abusive" is more suitable for emotional life than job hunting!

Suggestion: It is unlikely to find a work environment that seems to be tailor-made for you and fully meets your needs and goals in all aspects. Only by facing up to this reality can you understand how to adjust your mentality and take the first step out of school-in fact, learning how to adapt to those "imperfections" is also a major life topic you need to face!